This is me - what you see is what you get!

Looking for a male, ages 40-60

Ive been single for several years while i concentrated on raising my, now adult, children & then caring for my parents.
I live with my son and my 3 dogs. For work I’m an HR Manager.

What am I looking for? Someone with who I have some things in common, but is willing to share the things we haven’t. This works both ways. I’m settled where I live, with my daughter living close so I have no wish to move so if you’re miles away, you’re maybe not the one! A non-smoker is a must. You have to love dogs, mine are my family & two of them sleep on my bed!

Walking is a huge part of my life, I walk the dogs come rain or shine and as a member of the National Trust find some beautiful places to explore. 
I’m a big F1 fan and follow LeClerc & Verstappen. I’ve been to a few tracks but would love to go to more.
I enjoy gardening & love to spend time in mine or exploring other gardens.
I work a lot with the dogs; I compete in dog shows with two of them and they also work behind a horse & carriage when I get the chance. I judge my own breed & am working my way up the judging ladder.
I enjoy cooking & baking but don’t do it as often as I used to as it’s boring cooking for one!
I’m an avid collector of 30’s & 40’s antiques and 60’s & 70’s kitchenallia and my home is very reflective of this having several rooms of those periods.
My music taste is eclectic, my favourites playlist has Frank Sinatra, Glenn Miller, Luther Vandross, Wham, Linkin Park, Jay Z, Miley Cyrus, Harry Styles & Loyle Carner on it.
In the little “spare” time I have, I relax watching TV. Schitts Creek, Ted Lasso or a romantic comedy are my shows of choice. I miss going to the cinema too, it’s just not right going alone!
Lastly I want to be accepted for ME. I’m not perfect, none of us are. Not put off yet? Drop me a message & we can chat…..


Female, 54 from Eastleigh, UK