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Members from in and around Southampton

Anita, 48 Southampton Can we explore with love and happiness
I am a woman who will warm you and give you many warm thoughts and love! Are you ready for a vibrant life with me in reality outside of a dating site?
SparklingProfessor46, 54 Southampton A well disciplined and groomed man ready to put the past behind and move forward in his rather shattered love life
I like books, adventure movies just as I like going on adventures. There’s a lot more which can’t be put here….
GlamorousLegend252dc3, 47 Southampton Reading, self education is very important, cooking something new when inspiration hits me and just being a woman it means looking good, femenine, tender and caring.
I am not an Angel, not all women would be brave enough to say that, but I do believe I can make a man happy at the end of the day not a drama queen, just want harmony, some laugh when we cook together or walk together, lots of kisses are included.
Rose , 49 Southampton Hello everyone am new here and am looking for a serious relationship
I feel happy and good and am with my partner, someone I would be the rest of my life
Sally, 39 Southampton I am kind, caring and considerate.
I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. Let's memorize all the good things, cherish what we have right now, and create a cozy home together.

I am looking for a reliable man with good manners, not hot-tempered, kind and attentive, the one to be happy with forever. The man for me is the person to respect, to care and to love.
annavoy , 44 Southampton I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 82.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Ronnie1976, 53 Southampton Not sure what to put here so I won't put anything:)
hi, I'm a retired active sort of guy, love walks in the forest with my dog. Interested in most sports ...especially football. Just looking for a nice lady to chat to. Good sense of humour is a must!
EnthusiasticGoddess7, 32 Southampton hello there  hope we can get to know ourselves
i am a woman who is willing to find a great relationship
HelenaW548, 28 Southampton Am usually outgoing and always like to have fun with others
I’m out going person I love reading, dancing, cooking etc
Sweetness24, 39 Southampton Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature woman who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life.
Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature man who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life. I love the quiet of a good book, but l am also eager to explore the world and its wonders. At this point in my life, I am interested in finding a partner who shares my vision of what is truly important in life. I consider sincere communication and genuine connections to be fundamental in any relationship. Humor is a constant companion in my life, and I believe that a shared laugh can brighten even the darkest of days.
Liz, 54 Southampton Single again after a 20 year marriage and looking to meet new people for interesting hobbies and travel. I love art, architecture, books, politics and history.
I’m more of an introvert but like to laugh and believe in kindness, respect and treating people well.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
lilly12, 55 Southampton I am very pretty lady, I really like to settle down with the right person, am not here for games, am well respected woman with my own aims i wanna achieve.
I am not an ordinary girl. I will make any man, who will choose to share his life with me very happy. If I give my word, I do everything to keep it and never disappoint anyone. I am not used to compliments. I prefer simple things that come deep from your heart. Between a sweet lie and a bitter truth, I will always prefer a bitter truth. I have a good sense of humor and become happy when I can bring a smile to someone's face.
Lipsy , 35 Southampton I'm 35 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 35 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 86.
SingleR, 54 Southampton Single looking for commitment
Some one with their life together
Down to earth and a sense of humour
Where we can both be ourselves and have a laugh and be kind
AffectionateMusi6b5a, 58 Southampton AM HONEST AND SINCERE woman and i want to meet a lovely man to get married
I like going out with my friends and i like watching football games
Tomy, 40 Southampton Hi am tomy I am new here I am looking for friends
I love meeting new people and love going out for fun
amandadeadman67, 57 Southampton Happy go lucky  genuine  lady looking for the same
Love the outdoors. My dogs even love football lol.  Love the cinema or a country   pub with great company.  Gosh  love a laugh!! Not hear for any games  ! If we match  have the  manners  to reply. .stop wasting genuine  people's  time. ! I'm done ! Don't match  and nooo reply.  ## BE REAL OR  DONT  BOTTHER.!

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