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Members from in and around Southampton

Andermar, 56 Southampton Kind caring and honest love too meet same type of man
Love outdoors, animals and fishing and living life in the country
Lancsgsylass, 63 Southampton I’m a mature lady who is very active and keen on looking after myself. Love chocolate and alcohol though!! Only interested in somebody who loves my company but appreciates time out. Love all sports, keen to have dinner dates, walks and lots of fun
Watching Liverpool play football!! And a glass of bubbles with special friends
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Riz, 45 Southampton Looking for someone to share my life with. I have no kids, just a cat. And that profile summary just highlights how long I have been out of the dating game. Please say hi so I can do better. Thanks
Love a good hug. Conversation. Doing things with others, whether cooking together or going out somewhere. Enjoy gardening, although by no means professional at that. Enjoy DIY challenges. Ride a motorcycle.
Rosa, 53 Southampton Looking for friendship, hopefully developing into a relationship
Coffee makes me happy, I like simple and uncomplicated.
Ginny, 76 Southampton Young outlook,love to laugh,very loyal
Wicked sense of humour, looking for soul mate.Love animals,being by the sea,walking in the woods,spending quality time together.
Ashleytoto, 43 Southampton Im a matured lady seeking a friend with benefit relationship.
I’m an easy going type and very down to earth, also honest and trustworthy
LT7766, 46 Southampton Outgoing, loyal, hardworking lady looking for a match.
I love being outdoors with my dogs and would love to have a partner who likes the same. My dream is to have a small holding in the country.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Julie, 35 Southampton I am mature, active and goal-oriented woman who still wants to marry.I am educated, calm and polite. Talking to me you will have a feeling of lightness and harmony I am sensitive and I know how to improve your mood
I want to meet someone who likes to enjoy life, who will give me lots of emotions
Emma, 54 Southampton I'm open and friendly and I like to get on with people
born as a boy should have been a girl but I do love other boys. I'm just a normal girl really , I believe I'm open and friendly and I like to get on with people , I am quite chatty
Upforanything, 25 Southampton I don’t know what to say come find out
I will answer just ask I don’t mind don’t know what else to put
Summer, 63 Southampton 63yr young
Gsh mother to 3 adults.
Im looking for friendship to start with , anything else will happen naturally.
Good luck in your search guys
I’m not into sailing, hiking , jumping from great heights or climbing Mount Everest , I am into music , gigs & concerts , arts , cooking , eating out & in , crafts &  movies at flix or home & love animals ( have 2 cats & a nanny to a dog ) but most importantly my family .
I like to call myself pleasantly plump , but I’m a fatty  who hasn’t always been & don’t intend to stay this way , but I’m thinking if someone can except me now , for who I am , then the future has to be bright, doesn’t it ?
I’m looking for friendships to start with, if anything else happens it will naturally.
Good luck in your search guys x
leec93, 35 Southampton My name is lee and i have to amazing kids
Love football work heard and just looking for my soulmate
Piers, 30 Southampton Hello I’m Piers I’m 30 even though I look a lot younger then that
. Looking to meet someone with similar mindset and hobbies
Being around the right people Sri king a lot of coffee and playing and having fun with my friends
Hotmanpower, 59 Southampton I am a well-mannered and good-humored man, intelligent, loving and want a wonderful partner for her.
I am a well-mannered and good-humored man, intelligent, loving and want a wonderful partner for her.
Casandra , 43 Southampton I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger..
I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger.. I am a one man’s woman want to focus on settling down.. if you’re serious we can take things beyond conversation.
Sally, 39 Southampton I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener
I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. Let's memorize all the good things, cherish what we have right now, and create a cozy home together.
Alang, 56 Southampton Hello happy fun loving normal guy don't like Moody just want a friend someone normal please
Probably work to much like being out side like walking and just having a nice time
Etherealann900, 43 Southampton I am ambitious and very kind lady with good sense humor. I am ready for a serious relationship.
I want man who will be  my best adviser, reliable partner, passionate lover and truly a good person.

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