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Members from in and around Southampton

Marliene , 86 Southampton Like cooking travel and having a drink and staying in my home and going out for meal
Being myself and everything and enjoying good food and being happy and healthy
LT7766, 46 Southampton Outgoing, loyal, hardworking lady looking for a match.
I love being outdoors with my dogs and would love to have a partner who likes the same. My dream is to have a small holding in the country.
AmorousDaydreamer45d2d1, 40 Southampton Life is short and good as the same time, try doing your best. I believe nothing last forever
All I can say about myself is that I am a good girl! I love nature, relaxation, singing. Deep down, I am a romantic. From the side I am a tigress. My family says that there is no one in the world whom I cannot love. I am a very open girl. I try to follow my lifestyle. It is very important for me to understand how I will spend this day. After all, every day should be special…
Etherealann900, 43 Southampton I am ambitious and very kind lady with good sense humor. I am ready for a serious relationship.
I want man who will be  my best adviser, reliable partner, passionate lover and truly a good person.
Andermar, 56 Southampton Kind caring and honest love too meet same type of man
Love outdoors, animals and fishing and living life in the country
Ali, 51 Southampton Hi I'm ali with G S O H. Enjoy the sea. I'm a romantic. Love films and theaters. Don't like men with beards or smokers.
I'm happy seeing my grandchildren Love walking by sea.
Autumnsky, 54 Southampton Active at yoga and charity work. Self actualised. travel and nature inspired
A worthwhile cause interests me whist to be happiest it would be around animals. Forests. Spas
Delightfulmarlin, 40 Southampton I'm very much optimistic, sociable and friendly. Many people say that they can't believe that I'm an open and kind person meeting me for the first time, but when we start talking we immediately become friends lol.
I am a lady full of adventure and curiosity. Life has given us a wonderful opportunity to enjoy it! I have such romantic nature and also a woman with big heart.
amandadeadman67, 57 Southampton Happy go lucky  genuine  lady looking for the same
Love the outdoors. My dogs even love football lol.  Love the cinema or a country   pub with great company.  Gosh  love a laugh!! Not hear for any games  ! If we match  have the  manners  to reply. .stop wasting genuine  people's  time. ! I'm done ! Don't match  and nooo reply.  ## BE REAL OR  DONT  BOTTHER.!
McStealth, 28 Southampton Hi I like video games, I test games for a living. I'm the drummer in my rock band and can play a bit of guitar
I can play Drums and a bit of guitar, I like Listening to Rock Music such as Nirvana, Foo fighters and Smashing Pumpkins
Liz, 54 Southampton Single again after a 20 year marriage and looking to meet new people for interesting hobbies and travel. I love art, architecture, books, politics and history.
I’m more of an introvert but like to laugh and believe in kindness, respect and treating people well.
Nikki, 46 Southampton Hello am new and looking for something serious.
I am romantic, dreamy, hardworking, kind and honest woman. For me is necessary to live and enjoy the little things that every day is filled with! I can tell you that love for me the most important in life. Love makes you tireless. The biggest secret to keeping us active in the best possible conditions is to learn to always work with love, as love gives strength and revives.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Sam, 56 Southampton Save me for applying for a ridiculous TV dating show please
I’m happiest when I’m in a warm close relationship with someone who is available in every way
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
leec93, 35 Southampton My name is lee and i have to amazing kids
Love football work heard and just looking for my soulmate
Ashleytoto, 43 Southampton Im a matured lady seeking a friend with benefit relationship.
I’m an easy going type and very down to earth, also honest and trustworthy
Ceray , 38 Southampton I am honest widow with one daughter I am a caregiver at orphanage home.
I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 86.
Rose , 49 Southampton Hello everyone am new here and am looking for a serious relationship
I feel happy and good and am with my partner, someone I would be the rest of my life
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!

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