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Members from in and around Southampton

Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Lucky dancer, 65 Southampton I'm a happy outgoing person. Love to socialise. Love the sun holidays Eating out. Like cooking  watching  movies. Live Bands  etc
Love the sun .  I have a great sense of humour.  Quite dry lol
LT7766, 46 Southampton Outgoing, loyal, hardworking lady looking for a match.
I love being outdoors with my dogs and would love to have a partner who likes the same. My dream is to have a small holding in the country.
Riz, 45 Southampton Looking for someone to share my life with. I have no kids, just a cat. And that profile summary just highlights how long I have been out of the dating game. Please say hi so I can do better. Thanks
Love a good hug. Conversation. Doing things with others, whether cooking together or going out somewhere. Enjoy gardening, although by no means professional at that. Enjoy DIY challenges. Ride a motorcycle.
Casandra , 43 Southampton I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger..
I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger.. I am a one man’s woman want to focus on settling down.. if you’re serious we can take things beyond conversation.
Lovely123, 46 Southampton I am a cheerful, gentle and positive girl, I am looking for a man here and I will always respect a man as the head of the family. For me, family values always come first.
I like outdoor recreation, spending the night in a tent or hiking in the mountains. There is always positive and good mood in my life, I am one of those people who are always looking for good things and I am sure that I can find a man here with whom I will feel good. I want to leave Ukraine in the future, it is difficult for me to stay here at such a difficult time. If you want to get to know me better, then I will be glad to receive your letter.
Valarie77Lk, 38 Southampton Hey there..Am here looking for serious relationship.
I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Optimist pessimist, 62 Southampton Hi. I’m not sure what I’m looking for but I know when I find him! Forever optimistic in a pessimistic way
I am a confident positive woman who is comfortable in my own skin. I love my family and friends and have a great life. The only thing missing could be you
romseyelectricalservi780, 41 Southampton Looking for someone to laugh and chill with other
Motorcycle mad, love to travel ,
Laugh and live life to the full
Joseph, 31 Southampton Very simple and friendly here, love cooking and dancing
Very outgoing person, and has a good sense of humor
BubblyManLOL, 37 Southampton Open minded, sociable, pacified love nature old and used to the latest fad in town. I’m hopeful and look forward to meet my love-bird!!!!
I love nature and everything surrounding it. I’m the shy type at first, but you’ll find me pretty socialise and talkative (lol) when you get to know me better. Love cooking, that’s my habit. Going on hikes, camping, hanging out at old bars, kayaking, traveling. I only miss a sweet kind person in my life.
Leah, 39 Southampton I describe myself as a simple and understanding person, besides I like to take care of my loved ones with whom I share my joy and spontaneity. I love to be kind, detailed, and affectionate to connect with people in the best way.
I consider myself a calm, kind, fun, honest, communicative and very romantic woman with values and principles. I am very committed and willing to fight for my dreams and goals alongside a man who supports me and is my number one fan. I am a woman who likes to support my partner and be a complement. I hope here to connect with my soulmate, my other half and my best friend. I am not a perfect woman but with my virtues and defects I can steal your heart!
Sarah, 58 Southampton love, caring, honesty, undestanding,
friends, walking, chatting, listening to music, sport
FriendlyFashionista20, 33 Southampton I am easy going trusted caring and respected I am a good kind woman that I have a great heart of love and honey All I want is to find someone great will keep me safe and great in love.
I do like going to fishing camping swimming as well as take my dog for walking I have a big heart of love that I want to find the best man who is going to stay good and ever with me my life have been mess due to bad relationship so I don't want to waste no more just want to find love and happiness.
LMJ77, 46 Southampton Music loving, History Geek. Love to dance, walk, wander....
Ask away!....
Springtime, getting lost in time, wandering up a mountain, music, History, art, culture, dance
amandadeadman67, 57 Southampton Happy go lucky  genuine  lady looking for the same
Love the outdoors. My dogs even love football lol.  Love the cinema or a country   pub with great company.  Gosh  love a laugh!! Not hear for any games  ! If we match  have the  manners  to reply. .stop wasting genuine  people's  time. ! I'm done ! Don't match  and nooo reply.  ## BE REAL OR  DONT  BOTTHER.!
McStealth, 28 Southampton Hi I like video games, I test games for a living. I'm the drummer in my rock band and can play a bit of guitar
I can play Drums and a bit of guitar, I like Listening to Rock Music such as Nirvana, Foo fighters and Smashing Pumpkins
Blue, 49 Southampton Divorced mother of three looking for long term loving relationship
I love travelling, reading, tennis and cooking l. I am in my mid forties, divorced, mother, I am hard working, a bit shy, loving, kind and fun !
Comfort8585, 34 Southampton Am Comfort Saah from Uk am single without know
I am seeking to meet someone caring,  faithful, communicative,  loyal,  generous,  understanding,  future driven,  honest, truthful to be with in a long term relationship,  courtship or marriage,  some one with Good

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