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Members from in and around Southampton

Leah, 39 Southampton I describe myself as a simple and understanding person, besides I like to take care of my loved ones with whom I share my joy and spontaneity. I love to be kind, detailed, and affectionate to connect with people in the best way.
I consider myself a calm, kind, fun, honest, communicative and very romantic woman with values and principles. I am very committed and willing to fight for my dreams and goals alongside a man who supports me and is my number one fan. I am a woman who likes to support my partner and be a complement. I hope here to connect with my soulmate, my other half and my best friend. I am not a perfect woman but with my virtues and defects I can steal your heart!
Goldenprincess21, 40 Southampton I consider myself to be an honest and frank person. I can't agree with such opinions that love is an arena for fighting where the stronger man wins. I think that love must satisfy the thirst of a person who needs it.
I feel happy when I am around the people that makes me feel good
Casandra , 43 Southampton I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger..
I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger.. I am a one man’s woman want to focus on settling down.. if you’re serious we can take things beyond conversation.
Nikki, 46 Southampton Hello am new and looking for something serious.
I am romantic, dreamy, hardworking, kind and honest woman. For me is necessary to live and enjoy the little things that every day is filled with! I can tell you that love for me the most important in life. Love makes you tireless. The biggest secret to keeping us active in the best possible conditions is to learn to always work with love, as love gives strength and revives.
Female , 38 Southampton GIVING A TRY AND HOPEFULLY IT WORKS HERE
I'm 37 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90 for serious long term and hopefully settle down if it works for us. My main motive is to find someone we can love each other and grow together.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Tracy1400, 34 Southampton I am hoping to find someone who is older and mature and who is ready to be loved and spoiled. I am ready to love him and take care of him and make him happy everyday!
I am outgoing girl. I like to talk in direct way but I know how to control myself not to hurt people with words. I am caring and love to make friends. I am not experienced girl in love, don't worry I am a normal girl. I just wait for the one makes my heart beat fast for him all the time.
Upforanything, 25 Southampton I don’t know what to say come find out
I will answer just ask I don’t mind don’t know what else to put
lover11kk, 36 Southampton hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
AmorousDaydreamer45d2d1, 40 Southampton Life is short and good as the same time, try doing your best. I believe nothing last forever
All I can say about myself is that I am a good girl! I love nature, relaxation, singing. Deep down, I am a romantic. From the side I am a tigress. My family says that there is no one in the world whom I cannot love. I am a very open girl. I try to follow my lifestyle. It is very important for me to understand how I will spend this day. After all, every day should be special…
Sam, 56 Southampton Save me for applying for a ridiculous TV dating show please
I’m happiest when I’m in a warm close relationship with someone who is available in every way
Hotmanpower, 59 Southampton I am a well-mannered and good-humored man, intelligent, loving and want a wonderful partner for her.
I am a well-mannered and good-humored man, intelligent, loving and want a wonderful partner for her.
Alang, 56 Southampton Hello happy fun loving normal guy don't like Moody just want a friend someone normal please
Probably work to much like being out side like walking and just having a nice time
Julie, 35 Southampton I am mature, active and goal-oriented woman who still wants to marry.I am educated, calm and polite. Talking to me you will have a feeling of lightness and harmony I am sensitive and I know how to improve your mood
I want to meet someone who likes to enjoy life, who will give me lots of emotions
Jennyr880, 36 Southampton I like sharing happiness and sadness with my man. I also want to enjoy sitting and cuddling with my man on couch and watching a romantic movie by laying on his thighs with my head.
I am open-minded,lovely and sexy girl. I have a simple mind. I love to be happy and wish to get as much happiness as I can and bring it more to people I love.
CompassionateSch0821, 43 Southampton I'm looking for my soul mate .
I'm kind,sincere,modest ,caring,honest. generous .
Soulm8, 54 Southampton First mate looking fir soulm8. I’m young at heart , hardworking but still looking for a physical and mental connection
Love music , dancing , the arts , and of course sailing . I m a real water baby , and though have only done coastal sailing am up for setting sail for a real adventure . I would love romance and a deep connection with someone but am also happy to be someone’s first mate. Like big cocks and lots of gin and tonic !
mike707Southampton, 62 Southampton Hi 1st time on here .Hoping to have fun
Not looking for anything serious to start with just looking for some company mainly daytime when I'm not working .
katiehall375, 46 Southampton I am a loving and caring woman with simple sense of humor , I am looking for long term relationship with lovely man we can both happy and grow old together for the rest of our life
I am looking for someone to spend time with and lead into a lasting long term, rest of my life type of relationship or just a now thing, Someone to laugh with and try new things with and make new memories with together, hold each others for hours and hours.. To be able to have fun no matter what we are doing, as long as it is together..
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
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