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Members from in and around Southampton

Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
HelenaW548, 28 Southampton Am usually outgoing and always like to have fun with others
I’m out going person I love reading, dancing, cooking etc
HopefulTracy88, 38 Southampton Let’s Try Open Communication..
I'm someone who has a lot to offer to the right partner. I'm happy with my life alone but not lonely. I miss sharing it all with someone special. I enjoy long conversations, experiences, and romance. I want a best friend and companion first..and let nature take its course, if it is mutual and we want to marry that's a decision to be made later.I am at a point in my life where I want to spend some quality time with a mate that will share all life has to offer. I'm independent and self reliant but would love the opportunity to have a partner again. Life is so wonderful and I know I am not meant to spend it alone. I'm easy going, never moody, open minded, witty, and intelligent. I laugh a lot and enjoy life. I think mutual respect and mutual admiration for each other is important.
Piers, 30 Southampton Hello I’m Piers I’m 30 even though I look a lot younger then that
. Looking to meet someone with similar mindset and hobbies
Being around the right people Sri king a lot of coffee and playing and having fun with my friends
Joseph, 31 Southampton Very simple and friendly here, love cooking and dancing
Very outgoing person, and has a good sense of humor
Rosa, 53 Southampton Looking for friendship, hopefully developing into a relationship
Coffee makes me happy, I like simple and uncomplicated.
Florence372, 49 Southampton Am single Without no kids and never married before, I would like to meet the real man who’s responsible and asking for a relationship to lead us to the best future together.
I would like to tell you a bit about myself. I am a woman of strong character and kind heart, and you have a chance to meet me here on this online dating site. I
ImaginativeHeartac32, 35 Southampton Not really sure what to write about myself
I work with horses ,have a few pets, enjoy best outside
Female , 38 Southampton GIVING A TRY AND HOPEFULLY IT WORKS HERE
I'm 37 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90 for serious long term and hopefully settle down if it works for us. My main motive is to find someone we can love each other and grow together.
FascinatingPoet48dffc, 34 Southampton I’m a fun loving persons who enjoy spending time by the water be it swimming , boating or going fishing
I would call myself: Friendly, sentimental, responsive, polite. I do sports, I really like to cook. I traveled to different cities. I appreciate honesty, openness and the ability to conduct an interesting dialogue. It is important for me that our values and worldview are close, and we can build relationships on mutual respect and support. I am ready to meet an interesting man, and I am sure that we have every chance to create a special and pleasant communication.
Valarie77Lk, 38 Southampton Hey there..Am here looking for serious relationship.
I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.
McStealth, 28 Southampton Hi I like video games, I test games for a living. I'm the drummer in my rock band and can play a bit of guitar
I can play Drums and a bit of guitar, I like Listening to Rock Music such as Nirvana, Foo fighters and Smashing Pumpkins
Lizie, 57 Southampton rather I was called a tomboy, who constantly bruised, played with boys and climbed trees.
I keep after my health, I have no bad h! abits and I think that the girl should be educated lady and not to say obscene words.I think will be interesting to observe the world and the people who you meet on your way of this interesting and unexpected life.
FascinatingPoet48dffc, 34 Southampton I’m a fun loving persons who enjoy spending time by the water be it swimming , boating or going fishing
I would call myself: Friendly, sentimental, responsive, polite. I do sports, I really like to cook. I traveled to different cities. I appreciate honesty, openness and the ability to conduct an interesting dialogue. It is important for me that our values and worldview are close, and we can build relationships on mutual respect and support. I am ready to meet an interesting man, and I am sure that we have every chance to create a special and pleasant communication.
CompassionateSch0821, 43 Southampton I'm looking for my soul mate .
I'm kind,sincere,modest ,caring,honest. generous .
FlirtySoulmate3, 43 Southampton I am punctual and collected, I like order and cleanliness in everything.
I really want one man to captivate and charm me and thereby bring complete love chaos into my life) If the way to a man's heart lies through his stomach, then I assure you - you will be full, because you cannot resist from my desserts, and not only from sweets - you cannot resist me!
jeni328, 60 Southampton Try online dating they said so here goes.... I love the sky at night, the sun, music, fine wine, good manners, walks along the beach, love and laughter oh not forgetting tidiness and Zumba.

Now I have an edge, a realness about me, I can tell you it has
I'm very used to laughter my whole family has a great sense of humor it unites us endlessly. I love stand up comedy and Netflix specials especially Dave Chappell , Chris Rock, Ricky Gervais and Micky Flannagan.

I am passionate about my job, but also like to relax and just be; I enjoy a relatively stress free life {I hate drama} which I've learned to create by 'not sweating the small stuff'.  Life itself is a privilege, but to live life to the fullest - well, that is a choice.
BubblyManLOL, 37 Southampton Open minded, sociable, pacified love nature old and used to the latest fad in town. I’m hopeful and look forward to meet my love-bird!!!!
I love nature and everything surrounding it. I’m the shy type at first, but you’ll find me pretty socialise and talkative (lol) when you get to know me better. Love cooking, that’s my habit. Going on hikes, camping, hanging out at old bars, kayaking, traveling. I only miss a sweet kind person in my life.
Lipsy , 35 Southampton I'm 35 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 35 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 86.
DelightfulProfes967a, 33 Southampton Life is too short
Let’s have some fun
I’m an open book
Ask me anything
I’m ever ready to answer

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