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Members from in and around Southampton

Sally, 39 Southampton I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener
I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. Let's memorize all the good things, cherish what we have right now, and create a cozy home together.
Deborah Mor, 37 Southampton Simply adorable, young, positive, easy and not choosy, nor moody girl! I am communicative and have many good friends, but not so many close ones. I can say I am very loyal in friendship and relationship, I can't stand cheating at all
Listening to music , watching movies , swimming , cooking
Piers, 30 Southampton Hello I’m Piers I’m 30 even though I look a lot younger then that
. Looking to meet someone with similar mindset and hobbies
Being around the right people Sri king a lot of coffee and playing and having fun with my friends
leec93, 35 Southampton My name is lee and i have to amazing kids
Love football work heard and just looking for my soulmate
Joseph, 31 Southampton Very simple and friendly here, love cooking and dancing
Very outgoing person, and has a good sense of humor
Sally, 39 Southampton I am kind, caring and considerate.
I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. Let's memorize all the good things, cherish what we have right now, and create a cozy home together.

I am looking for a reliable man with good manners, not hot-tempered, kind and attentive, the one to be happy with forever. The man for me is the person to respect, to care and to love.
Cereiy, 41 Southampton I'm 41 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 41 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.
AffectionateMusi6b5a, 58 Southampton AM HONEST AND SINCERE woman and i want to meet a lovely man to get married
I like going out with my friends and i like watching football games
Casandra , 43 Southampton I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger..
I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger.. I am a one man’s woman want to focus on settling down.. if you’re serious we can take things beyond conversation.
HopefulTracy88, 38 Southampton Let’s Try Open Communication..
I'm someone who has a lot to offer to the right partner. I'm happy with my life alone but not lonely. I miss sharing it all with someone special. I enjoy long conversations, experiences, and romance. I want a best friend and companion first..and let nature take its course, if it is mutual and we want to marry that's a decision to be made later.I am at a point in my life where I want to spend some quality time with a mate that will share all life has to offer. I'm independent and self reliant but would love the opportunity to have a partner again. Life is so wonderful and I know I am not meant to spend it alone. I'm easy going, never moody, open minded, witty, and intelligent. I laugh a lot and enjoy life. I think mutual respect and mutual admiration for each other is important.
jeni302, 60 Southampton Here’s the thing … I’m about honesty and trust. I’m content with life but would love it to be enhanced by being part of a couple & creating a meaningful relationship.
Try online dating they said so here goes…
Hi there! I’m Jenise I now work part time which means I’ve got plenty of time to kick back and enjoy life maybe have a nice glass of wine at weekends. I live near the sea and love to spend time unwinding by the beach. I’m into travelling and would love to meet a man who’ll have his passport at the ready! I love the sky at night, the sun, music, fine wine, good manners, love and laughter oh not forgetting tidiness and Zumba.
Now I do have an edge and realness about me, I can tell you it has kept me in good stead so far. I like when my man is honest, kind and thoughtful with a good heart and great sense of humor. Its important to me that he's able to talk to all types of people, from doctors to dishwashers. I’m looking for a serious relationship. No time wasters please count me out as it is so tedious playing games I’ll leave that to the game players.
jeni328, 60 Southampton Try online dating they said so here goes.... I love the sky at night, the sun, music, fine wine, good manners, walks along the beach, love and laughter oh not forgetting tidiness and Zumba.

Now I have an edge, a realness about me, I can tell you it has
I'm very used to laughter my whole family has a great sense of humor it unites us endlessly. I love stand up comedy and Netflix specials especially Dave Chappell , Chris Rock, Ricky Gervais and Micky Flannagan.

I am passionate about my job, but also like to relax and just be; I enjoy a relatively stress free life {I hate drama} which I've learned to create by 'not sweating the small stuff'.  Life itself is a privilege, but to live life to the fullest - well, that is a choice.
Rosa, 53 Southampton Looking for friendship, hopefully developing into a relationship
Coffee makes me happy, I like simple and uncomplicated.
Sweetness24, 39 Southampton Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature woman who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life.
Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature man who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life. I love the quiet of a good book, but l am also eager to explore the world and its wonders. At this point in my life, I am interested in finding a partner who shares my vision of what is truly important in life. I consider sincere communication and genuine connections to be fundamental in any relationship. Humor is a constant companion in my life, and I believe that a shared laugh can brighten even the darkest of days.
Lovebug83, 39 Southampton I am down to earth, goodhearted, sweet happy person with a warm personality and a positive outlook on life. I’m Silly, loving, trustworthy ( honest ) MAN. I live by myself, wear socks that match and shower daily
Someone telling a good joke makes me happy. And being able to help people in term of needs make me excited.
Elizabeth , 38 Southampton I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I am an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays.<br>I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Optimist pessimist, 62 Southampton Hi. I’m not sure what I’m looking for but I know when I find him! Forever optimistic in a pessimistic way
I am a confident positive woman who is comfortable in my own skin. I love my family and friends and have a great life. The only thing missing could be you
Anita, 48 Southampton Can we explore with love and happiness
I am a woman who will warm you and give you many warm thoughts and love! Are you ready for a vibrant life with me in reality outside of a dating site?

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