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Members from in and around Southampton

Ginny, 76 Southampton Young outlook,love to laugh,very loyal
Wicked sense of humour, looking for soul mate.Love animals,being by the sea,walking in the woods,spending quality time together.
katiehall375, 46 Southampton I am a loving and caring woman with simple sense of humor , I am looking for long term relationship with lovely man we can both happy and grow old together for the rest of our life
I am looking for someone to spend time with and lead into a lasting long term, rest of my life type of relationship or just a now thing, Someone to laugh with and try new things with and make new memories with together, hold each others for hours and hours.. To be able to have fun no matter what we are doing, as long as it is together..
Razor72, 50 Southampton goes it where see and friendship for looking Hi
happy me make people happy so miserable To to short too IsLife
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Piers, 30 Southampton Hello I’m Piers I’m 30 even though I look a lot younger then that
. Looking to meet someone with similar mindset and hobbies
Being around the right people Sri king a lot of coffee and playing and having fun with my friends
Hotmanpower, 59 Southampton I am a well-mannered and good-humored man, intelligent, loving and want a wonderful partner for her.
I am a well-mannered and good-humored man, intelligent, loving and want a wonderful partner for her.
amandadeadman67, 57 Southampton Happy go lucky  genuine  lady looking for the same
Love the outdoors. My dogs even love football lol.  Love the cinema or a country   pub with great company.  Gosh  love a laugh!! Not hear for any games  ! If we match  have the  manners  to reply. .stop wasting genuine  people's  time. ! I'm done ! Don't match  and nooo reply.  ## BE REAL OR  DONT  BOTTHER.!
mike707Southampton, 62 Southampton Hi 1st time on here .Hoping to have fun
Not looking for anything serious to start with just looking for some company mainly daytime when I'm not working .
ImaginativeHeartac32, 35 Southampton Not really sure what to write about myself
I work with horses ,have a few pets, enjoy best outside
HopefulTracy88, 38 Southampton Let’s Try Open Communication..
I'm someone who has a lot to offer to the right partner. I'm happy with my life alone but not lonely. I miss sharing it all with someone special. I enjoy long conversations, experiences, and romance. I want a best friend and companion first..and let nature take its course, if it is mutual and we want to marry that's a decision to be made later.I am at a point in my life where I want to spend some quality time with a mate that will share all life has to offer. I'm independent and self reliant but would love the opportunity to have a partner again. Life is so wonderful and I know I am not meant to spend it alone. I'm easy going, never moody, open minded, witty, and intelligent. I laugh a lot and enjoy life. I think mutual respect and mutual admiration for each other is important.
FriendlyFashionista20, 33 Southampton I am easy going trusted caring and respected I am a good kind woman that I have a great heart of love and honey All I want is to find someone great will keep me safe and great in love.
I do like going to fishing camping swimming as well as take my dog for walking I have a big heart of love that I want to find the best man who is going to stay good and ever with me my life have been mess due to bad relationship so I don't want to waste no more just want to find love and happiness.
Autumnsky, 54 Southampton Active at yoga and charity work. Self actualised. travel and nature inspired
A worthwhile cause interests me whist to be happiest it would be around animals. Forests. Spas
Marliene , 86 Southampton Like cooking travel and having a drink and staying in my home and going out for meal
Being myself and everything and enjoying good food and being happy and healthy
Delightfulmarlin, 40 Southampton I'm very much optimistic, sociable and friendly. Many people say that they can't believe that I'm an open and kind person meeting me for the first time, but when we start talking we immediately become friends lol.
I am a lady full of adventure and curiosity. Life has given us a wonderful opportunity to enjoy it! I have such romantic nature and also a woman with big heart.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Joseph, 31 Southampton Very simple and friendly here, love cooking and dancing
Very outgoing person, and has a good sense of humor
janlind362, 67 Southampton Someone who is understanding.& caring.
I'm a caring loving Leo.&have a good sense of humour
Summer, 63 Southampton 63yr young
Gsh mother to 3 adults.
Im looking for friendship to start with , anything else will happen naturally.
Good luck in your search guys
I’m not into sailing, hiking , jumping from great heights or climbing Mount Everest , I am into music , gigs & concerts , arts , cooking , eating out & in , crafts &  movies at flix or home & love animals ( have 2 cats & a nanny to a dog ) but most importantly my family .
I like to call myself pleasantly plump , but I’m a fatty  who hasn’t always been & don’t intend to stay this way , but I’m thinking if someone can except me now , for who I am , then the future has to be bright, doesn’t it ?
I’m looking for friendships to start with, if anything else happens it will naturally.
Good luck in your search guys x
Patricia67, 67 Southampton Hii! I'm Patricia.i am 67 years old buh still a pretty and energetic woman just like years ago
lots of things make me happy or excite. Especially surprises
SparklingProfessor46, 54 Southampton A well disciplined and groomed man ready to put the past behind and move forward in his rather shattered love life
I like books, adventure movies just as I like going on adventures. There’s a lot more which can’t be put here….

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