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Members from in and around Southampton

AffectionateMusi6b5a, 58 Southampton AM HONEST AND SINCERE woman and i want to meet a lovely man to get married
I like going out with my friends and i like watching football games
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
FriendlyFashionista20, 33 Southampton I am easy going trusted caring and respected I am a good kind woman that I have a great heart of love and honey All I want is to find someone great will keep me safe and great in love.
I do like going to fishing camping swimming as well as take my dog for walking I have a big heart of love that I want to find the best man who is going to stay good and ever with me my life have been mess due to bad relationship so I don't want to waste no more just want to find love and happiness.
SparklingProfessor46, 54 Southampton A well disciplined and groomed man ready to put the past behind and move forward in his rather shattered love life
I like books, adventure movies just as I like going on adventures. There’s a lot more which can’t be put here….
LMJ77, 46 Southampton Music loving, History Geek. Love to dance, walk, wander....
Ask away!....
Springtime, getting lost in time, wandering up a mountain, music, History, art, culture, dance
SingleR, 54 Southampton Single looking for commitment
Some one with their life together
Down to earth and a sense of humour
Where we can both be ourselves and have a laugh and be kind
Florence372, 49 Southampton Am single Without no kids and never married before, I would like to meet the real man who’s responsible and asking for a relationship to lead us to the best future together.
I would like to tell you a bit about myself. I am a woman of strong character and kind heart, and you have a chance to meet me here on this online dating site. I
Jasmine_Clevertta, 44 Southampton Love caring and easy going person
Humble respectful and generous person
Love hanging out in my farms
HopefulTracy88, 38 Southampton Let’s Try Open Communication..
I'm someone who has a lot to offer to the right partner. I'm happy with my life alone but not lonely. I miss sharing it all with someone special. I enjoy long conversations, experiences, and romance. I want a best friend and companion first..and let nature take its course, if it is mutual and we want to marry that's a decision to be made later.I am at a point in my life where I want to spend some quality time with a mate that will share all life has to offer. I'm independent and self reliant but would love the opportunity to have a partner again. Life is so wonderful and I know I am not meant to spend it alone. I'm easy going, never moody, open minded, witty, and intelligent. I laugh a lot and enjoy life. I think mutual respect and mutual admiration for each other is important.
Jennyr880, 36 Southampton I like sharing happiness and sadness with my man. I also want to enjoy sitting and cuddling with my man on couch and watching a romantic movie by laying on his thighs with my head.
I am open-minded,lovely and sexy girl. I have a simple mind. I love to be happy and wish to get as much happiness as I can and bring it more to people I love.
Lovely123, 46 Southampton I am a cheerful, gentle and positive girl, I am looking for a man here and I will always respect a man as the head of the family. For me, family values always come first.
I like outdoor recreation, spending the night in a tent or hiking in the mountains. There is always positive and good mood in my life, I am one of those people who are always looking for good things and I am sure that I can find a man here with whom I will feel good. I want to leave Ukraine in the future, it is difficult for me to stay here at such a difficult time. If you want to get to know me better, then I will be glad to receive your letter.
Ptautos, 51 Southampton Hi I am looking for a beautiful lady to start a relationship with but to start with as friends with benefits I am looking for someone in Hampshire area near to where I live (Southampton)
I am happy when I am having fun and with a lady I like going out but also like cuddling up on the sofa.
Ceray , 38 Southampton I am honest widow with one daughter I am a caregiver at orphanage home.
I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 41 and 86.
Icheryl, 49 Southampton I am kind, open, warm-hearted and gentle. I am well travelled, have a good life and use to live without drama ore rush. I enjoy each new day and hope to meet a man to do it together till the end. Let's create our own little world?
They say that an ideal husband is a man who believes that he has an ideal wife. I do not believe in perfect people, but I believe in a human compatibility. What do you think? So, I am here with hopes to meeting a man, with whom we will create a compatible couple and may be family in future. By the way, I think that a woman can only fully reveal herself in a family. Describing myself, I can say that I have a good personality and rich inner world.
Of course I had a serious relationship in past, but now I am single and ready to open my heart and life to a cheerful, experienced, confident and well-mannered man.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Marliene , 86 Southampton Like cooking travel and having a drink and staying in my home and going out for meal
Being myself and everything and enjoying good food and being happy and healthy
Stepheng, 53 Southampton Hi my name is Stephen I live in park gate Southampton
I can drive and can come to you I have
MoanForYou, 43 Southampton I am real with many positive sides and flaws. I am here because I want to meet a real man and I will be glad to talk to you and know you better than you know me. I am a lover of life and everything it has to offer.
Dreaming of sun, sand, and salty air. On a mission to find my own little piece of paradise. I'm passionate about making the most out of every moment. Let's make memories together.
jeni302, 60 Southampton Here’s the thing … I’m about honesty and trust. I’m content with life but would love it to be enhanced by being part of a couple & creating a meaningful relationship.
Try online dating they said so here goes…
Hi there! I’m Jenise I now work part time which means I’ve got plenty of time to kick back and enjoy life maybe have a nice glass of wine at weekends. I live near the sea and love to spend time unwinding by the beach. I’m into travelling and would love to meet a man who’ll have his passport at the ready! I love the sky at night, the sun, music, fine wine, good manners, love and laughter oh not forgetting tidiness and Zumba.
Now I do have an edge and realness about me, I can tell you it has kept me in good stead so far. I like when my man is honest, kind and thoughtful with a good heart and great sense of humor. Its important to me that he's able to talk to all types of people, from doctors to dishwashers. I’m looking for a serious relationship. No time wasters please count me out as it is so tedious playing games I’ll leave that to the game players.
EnthusiasticGoddess7, 32 Southampton hello there  hope we can get to know ourselves
i am a woman who is willing to find a great relationship

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