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Members from in and around Southampton

Delightfulmarlin, 40 Southampton I'm very much optimistic, sociable and friendly. Many people say that they can't believe that I'm an open and kind person meeting me for the first time, but when we start talking we immediately become friends lol.
I am a lady full of adventure and curiosity. Life has given us a wonderful opportunity to enjoy it! I have such romantic nature and also a woman with big heart.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Ashleytoto, 43 Southampton Im a matured lady seeking a friend with benefit relationship.
I’m an easy going type and very down to earth, also honest and trustworthy
Optimist pessimist, 62 Southampton Hi. I’m not sure what I’m looking for but I know when I find him! Forever optimistic in a pessimistic way
I am a confident positive woman who is comfortable in my own skin. I love my family and friends and have a great life. The only thing missing could be you
Marliene , 86 Southampton Like cooking travel and having a drink and staying in my home and going out for meal
Being myself and everything and enjoying good food and being happy and healthy
Lovely123, 46 Southampton I am a cheerful, gentle and positive girl, I am looking for a man here and I will always respect a man as the head of the family. For me, family values always come first.
I like outdoor recreation, spending the night in a tent or hiking in the mountains. There is always positive and good mood in my life, I am one of those people who are always looking for good things and I am sure that I can find a man here with whom I will feel good. I want to leave Ukraine in the future, it is difficult for me to stay here at such a difficult time. If you want to get to know me better, then I will be glad to receive your letter.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
EnthusiasticGoddess7, 32 Southampton hello there  hope we can get to know ourselves
i am a woman who is willing to find a great relationship
Stepheng, 53 Southampton Hi my name is Stephen I live in park gate Southampton
I can drive and can come to you I have
Leah, 39 Southampton I describe myself as a simple and understanding person, besides I like to take care of my loved ones with whom I share my joy and spontaneity. I love to be kind, detailed, and affectionate to connect with people in the best way.
I consider myself a calm, kind, fun, honest, communicative and very romantic woman with values and principles. I am very committed and willing to fight for my dreams and goals alongside a man who supports me and is my number one fan. I am a woman who likes to support my partner and be a complement. I hope here to connect with my soulmate, my other half and my best friend. I am not a perfect woman but with my virtues and defects I can steal your heart!
DelightfulProfes967a, 33 Southampton Life is too short
Let’s have some fun
I’m an open book
Ask me anything
I’m ever ready to answer
Soulm8, 54 Southampton First mate looking fir soulm8. I’m young at heart , hardworking but still looking for a physical and mental connection
Love music , dancing , the arts , and of course sailing . I m a real water baby , and though have only done coastal sailing am up for setting sail for a real adventure . I would love romance and a deep connection with someone but am also happy to be someone’s first mate. Like big cocks and lots of gin and tonic !
Lovebug83, 39 Southampton I am down to earth, goodhearted, sweet happy person with a warm personality and a positive outlook on life. I’m Silly, loving, trustworthy ( honest ) MAN. I live by myself, wear socks that match and shower daily
Someone telling a good joke makes me happy. And being able to help people in term of needs make me excited.
PEACE , 41 Southampton A cool headed guy, jovial and easy going.
The more you come close to me,the more you get to know me.
Lancsgsylass, 63 Southampton I’m a mature lady who is very active and keen on looking after myself. Love chocolate and alcohol though!! Only interested in somebody who loves my company but appreciates time out. Love all sports, keen to have dinner dates, walks and lots of fun
Watching Liverpool play football!! And a glass of bubbles with special friends
Patricia67, 67 Southampton Hii! I'm Patricia.i am 67 years old buh still a pretty and energetic woman just like years ago
lots of things make me happy or excite. Especially surprises
Nikki, 46 Southampton Hello am new and looking for something serious.
I am romantic, dreamy, hardworking, kind and honest woman. For me is necessary to live and enjoy the little things that every day is filled with! I can tell you that love for me the most important in life. Love makes you tireless. The biggest secret to keeping us active in the best possible conditions is to learn to always work with love, as love gives strength and revives.
Sam, 56 Southampton Save me for applying for a ridiculous TV dating show please
I’m happiest when I’m in a warm close relationship with someone who is available in every way
Tloui, 32 Southampton Hello I am new here. Spread love
I am loving, caring and open minded and I hope to meet likeminded people
Sally, 39 Southampton I am kind, caring and considerate.
I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. Let's memorize all the good things, cherish what we have right now, and create a cozy home together.

I am looking for a reliable man with good manners, not hot-tempered, kind and attentive, the one to be happy with forever. The man for me is the person to respect, to care and to love.

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