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Members from in and around Southampton

SparklingProfessor46, 54 Southampton A well disciplined and groomed man ready to put the past behind and move forward in his rather shattered love life
I like books, adventure movies just as I like going on adventures. There’s a lot more which can’t be put here….
Liz, 54 Southampton Single again after a 20 year marriage and looking to meet new people for interesting hobbies and travel. I love art, architecture, books, politics and history.
I’m more of an introvert but like to laugh and believe in kindness, respect and treating people well.
Valarie77Lk, 38 Southampton Hey there..Am here looking for serious relationship.
I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.
jean, 54 Southampton im a very loyal and caring person very happy go lucky sort of person i try not to let things get me down  i sort of laugh it off when i meet the right person there will be nobody else i will stand by that person and support him in everyway that i can he will be part of me he will be my life.  the sort of gentleman i should love to meet is a loyal and caring sort of man someone i can have a laugh and a joke with someonei can feel safe with  also someone who is romantic someone who could bring some romance into my life.
ImaginativeHeartac32, 35 Southampton Not really sure what to write about myself
I work with horses ,have a few pets, enjoy best outside
made to please, 41 Southampton Looking for non committed woman that are interesting, fun, good a conversation and open
I'm 41, experienced and tall. Handsome and fun with a pinch of romance
HopefulTracy88, 38 Southampton Let’s Try Open Communication..
I'm someone who has a lot to offer to the right partner. I'm happy with my life alone but not lonely. I miss sharing it all with someone special. I enjoy long conversations, experiences, and romance. I want a best friend and companion first..and let nature take its course, if it is mutual and we want to marry that's a decision to be made later.I am at a point in my life where I want to spend some quality time with a mate that will share all life has to offer. I'm independent and self reliant but would love the opportunity to have a partner again. Life is so wonderful and I know I am not meant to spend it alone. I'm easy going, never moody, open minded, witty, and intelligent. I laugh a lot and enjoy life. I think mutual respect and mutual admiration for each other is important.
FascinatingPoet48dffc, 34 Southampton I’m a fun loving persons who enjoy spending time by the water be it swimming , boating or going fishing
I would call myself: Friendly, sentimental, responsive, polite. I do sports, I really like to cook. I traveled to different cities. I appreciate honesty, openness and the ability to conduct an interesting dialogue. It is important for me that our values and worldview are close, and we can build relationships on mutual respect and support. I am ready to meet an interesting man, and I am sure that we have every chance to create a special and pleasant communication.
Lovebug83, 39 Southampton I am down to earth, goodhearted, sweet happy person with a warm personality and a positive outlook on life. I’m Silly, loving, trustworthy ( honest ) MAN. I live by myself, wear socks that match and shower daily
Someone telling a good joke makes me happy. And being able to help people in term of needs make me excited.
Marliene , 86 Southampton Like cooking travel and having a drink and staying in my home and going out for meal
Being myself and everything and enjoying good food and being happy and healthy
Razor72, 50 Southampton goes it where see and friendship for looking Hi
happy me make people happy so miserable To to short too IsLife
Lancsgsylass, 63 Southampton I’m a mature lady who is very active and keen on looking after myself. Love chocolate and alcohol though!! Only interested in somebody who loves my company but appreciates time out. Love all sports, keen to have dinner dates, walks and lots of fun
Watching Liverpool play football!! And a glass of bubbles with special friends
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Tracy1400, 34 Southampton I am hoping to find someone who is older and mature and who is ready to be loved and spoiled. I am ready to love him and take care of him and make him happy everyday!
I am outgoing girl. I like to talk in direct way but I know how to control myself not to hurt people with words. I am caring and love to make friends. I am not experienced girl in love, don't worry I am a normal girl. I just wait for the one makes my heart beat fast for him all the time.
Darryl, 50 Southampton I'm 50 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 50 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.
Soulm8, 54 Southampton First mate looking fir soulm8. I’m young at heart , hardworking but still looking for a physical and mental connection
Love music , dancing , the arts , and of course sailing . I m a real water baby , and though have only done coastal sailing am up for setting sail for a real adventure . I would love romance and a deep connection with someone but am also happy to be someone’s first mate. Like big cocks and lots of gin and tonic !
Sam, 56 Southampton Save me for applying for a ridiculous TV dating show please
I’m happiest when I’m in a warm close relationship with someone who is available in every way
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Jennyr880, 36 Southampton I like sharing happiness and sadness with my man. I also want to enjoy sitting and cuddling with my man on couch and watching a romantic movie by laying on his thighs with my head.
I am open-minded,lovely and sexy girl. I have a simple mind. I love to be happy and wish to get as much happiness as I can and bring it more to people I love.
Alang, 56 Southampton Hello happy fun loving normal guy don't like Moody just want a friend someone normal please
Probably work to much like being out side like walking and just having a nice time

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