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Members from in and around Southampton

SingleR, 54 Southampton Single looking for commitment
Some one with their life together
Down to earth and a sense of humour
Where we can both be ourselves and have a laugh and be kind
Bluerose, 64 Southampton I’m a happy person compassionate loyal honest. Just wanting to meet that one special person.
I’m a happy and social person with a good sense of humour
SparklingProfessor46, 54 Southampton A well disciplined and groomed man ready to put the past behind and move forward in his rather shattered love life
I like books, adventure movies just as I like going on adventures. There’s a lot more which can’t be put here….
Marliene , 86 Southampton Like cooking travel and having a drink and staying in my home and going out for meal
Being myself and everything and enjoying good food and being happy and healthy
Autumnsky, 54 Southampton Active at yoga and charity work. Self actualised. travel and nature inspired
A worthwhile cause interests me whist to be happiest it would be around animals. Forests. Spas
Julie, 35 Southampton I am mature, active and goal-oriented woman who still wants to marry.I am educated, calm and polite. Talking to me you will have a feeling of lightness and harmony I am sensitive and I know how to improve your mood
I want to meet someone who likes to enjoy life, who will give me lots of emotions
Elizabeth , 38 Southampton I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I am an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays.<br>I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.
Jennyr880, 36 Southampton I like sharing happiness and sadness with my man. I also want to enjoy sitting and cuddling with my man on couch and watching a romantic movie by laying on his thighs with my head.
I am open-minded,lovely and sexy girl. I have a simple mind. I love to be happy and wish to get as much happiness as I can and bring it more to people I love.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Tloui, 32 Southampton Hello I am new here. Spread love
I am loving, caring and open minded and I hope to meet likeminded people
Ashleytoto, 43 Southampton Im a matured lady seeking a friend with benefit relationship.
I’m an easy going type and very down to earth, also honest and trustworthy
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Liz, 54 Southampton Single again after a 20 year marriage and looking to meet new people for interesting hobbies and travel. I love art, architecture, books, politics and history.
I’m more of an introvert but like to laugh and believe in kindness, respect and treating people well.
GlamorousLegend252dc3, 47 Southampton Reading, self education is very important, cooking something new when inspiration hits me and just being a woman it means looking good, femenine, tender and caring.
I am not an Angel, not all women would be brave enough to say that, but I do believe I can make a man happy at the end of the day not a drama queen, just want harmony, some laugh when we cook together or walk together, lots of kisses are included.
Optimist pessimist, 62 Southampton Hi. I’m not sure what I’m looking for but I know when I find him! Forever optimistic in a pessimistic way
I am a confident positive woman who is comfortable in my own skin. I love my family and friends and have a great life. The only thing missing could be you
Cereiy, 41 Southampton I'm 41 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 41 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.
LMJ77, 46 Southampton Music loving, History Geek. Love to dance, walk, wander....
Ask away!....
Springtime, getting lost in time, wandering up a mountain, music, History, art, culture, dance
Patricia67, 67 Southampton Hii! I'm Patricia.i am 67 years old buh still a pretty and energetic woman just like years ago
lots of things make me happy or excite. Especially surprises
leec93, 35 Southampton My name is lee and i have to amazing kids
Love football work heard and just looking for my soulmate

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