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Members from in and around Southampton

lover11kk, 36 Southampton hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
Casandra , 43 Southampton I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger..
I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger.. I am a one man’s woman want to focus on settling down.. if you’re serious we can take things beyond conversation.
Emma, 54 Southampton I'm open and friendly and I like to get on with people
born as a boy should have been a girl but I do love other boys. I'm just a normal girl really , I believe I'm open and friendly and I like to get on with people , I am quite chatty
Sally, 39 Southampton I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener
I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. Let's memorize all the good things, cherish what we have right now, and create a cozy home together.
Upforanything, 25 Southampton I don’t know what to say come find out
I will answer just ask I don’t mind don’t know what else to put
Goldenprincess21, 40 Southampton I consider myself to be an honest and frank person. I can't agree with such opinions that love is an arena for fighting where the stronger man wins. I think that love must satisfy the thirst of a person who needs it.
I feel happy when I am around the people that makes me feel good
Autumnsky, 54 Southampton Active at yoga and charity work. Self actualised. travel and nature inspired
A worthwhile cause interests me whist to be happiest it would be around animals. Forests. Spas
Piers, 30 Southampton Hello I’m Piers I’m 30 even though I look a lot younger then that
. Looking to meet someone with similar mindset and hobbies
Being around the right people Sri king a lot of coffee and playing and having fun with my friends
Jennyr880, 36 Southampton I like sharing happiness and sadness with my man. I also want to enjoy sitting and cuddling with my man on couch and watching a romantic movie by laying on his thighs with my head.
I am open-minded,lovely and sexy girl. I have a simple mind. I love to be happy and wish to get as much happiness as I can and bring it more to people I love.
dafibeebhdacehhgcan, 54 Southampton I'm 54 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 54 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 48 and 90.
romseyelectricalservi780, 41 Southampton Looking for someone to laugh and chill with other
Motorcycle mad, love to travel ,
Laugh and live life to the full
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
HopefulTracy88, 38 Southampton Let’s Try Open Communication..
I'm someone who has a lot to offer to the right partner. I'm happy with my life alone but not lonely. I miss sharing it all with someone special. I enjoy long conversations, experiences, and romance. I want a best friend and companion first..and let nature take its course, if it is mutual and we want to marry that's a decision to be made later.I am at a point in my life where I want to spend some quality time with a mate that will share all life has to offer. I'm independent and self reliant but would love the opportunity to have a partner again. Life is so wonderful and I know I am not meant to spend it alone. I'm easy going, never moody, open minded, witty, and intelligent. I laugh a lot and enjoy life. I think mutual respect and mutual admiration for each other is important.
EnthusiasticGoddess7, 32 Southampton hello there  hope we can get to know ourselves
i am a woman who is willing to find a great relationship
Marliene , 86 Southampton Like cooking travel and having a drink and staying in my home and going out for meal
Being myself and everything and enjoying good food and being happy and healthy
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Lovebug83, 39 Southampton I am down to earth, goodhearted, sweet happy person with a warm personality and a positive outlook on life. I’m Silly, loving, trustworthy ( honest ) MAN. I live by myself, wear socks that match and shower daily
Someone telling a good joke makes me happy. And being able to help people in term of needs make me excited.
Valarie77Lk, 38 Southampton Hey there..Am here looking for serious relationship.
I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.
Andermar, 56 Southampton Kind caring and honest love too meet same type of man
Love outdoors, animals and fishing and living life in the country
Lovely123, 46 Southampton I am a cheerful, gentle and positive girl, I am looking for a man here and I will always respect a man as the head of the family. For me, family values always come first.
I like outdoor recreation, spending the night in a tent or hiking in the mountains. There is always positive and good mood in my life, I am one of those people who are always looking for good things and I am sure that I can find a man here with whom I will feel good. I want to leave Ukraine in the future, it is difficult for me to stay here at such a difficult time. If you want to get to know me better, then I will be glad to receive your letter.

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