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Members from in and around Southampton

lilly12, 55 Southampton I am very pretty lady, I really like to settle down with the right person, am not here for games, am well respected woman with my own aims i wanna achieve.
I am not an ordinary girl. I will make any man, who will choose to share his life with me very happy. If I give my word, I do everything to keep it and never disappoint anyone. I am not used to compliments. I prefer simple things that come deep from your heart. Between a sweet lie and a bitter truth, I will always prefer a bitter truth. I have a good sense of humor and become happy when I can bring a smile to someone's face.
Annie , 49 Southampton Looking to meet someone caring, loving.  Someone to be with and gave good times
I'm a funny, caring person
I have alot to give to the right person.
Enjoy a good giggle.
Long walks then country pub. Perfect
Soulm8, 54 Southampton First mate looking fir soulm8. I’m young at heart , hardworking but still looking for a physical and mental connection
Love music , dancing , the arts , and of course sailing . I m a real water baby , and though have only done coastal sailing am up for setting sail for a real adventure . I would love romance and a deep connection with someone but am also happy to be someone’s first mate. Like big cocks and lots of gin and tonic !
Ashleytoto, 43 Southampton Im a matured lady seeking a friend with benefit relationship.
I’m an easy going type and very down to earth, also honest and trustworthy
Riz, 45 Southampton Looking for someone to share my life with. I have no kids, just a cat. And that profile summary just highlights how long I have been out of the dating game. Please say hi so I can do better. Thanks
Love a good hug. Conversation. Doing things with others, whether cooking together or going out somewhere. Enjoy gardening, although by no means professional at that. Enjoy DIY challenges. Ride a motorcycle.
PEACE , 41 Southampton A cool headed guy, jovial and easy going.
The more you come close to me,the more you get to know me.
Summer, 63 Southampton 63yr young
Gsh mother to 3 adults.
Im looking for friendship to start with , anything else will happen naturally.
Good luck in your search guys
I’m not into sailing, hiking , jumping from great heights or climbing Mount Everest , I am into music , gigs & concerts , arts , cooking , eating out & in , crafts &  movies at flix or home & love animals ( have 2 cats & a nanny to a dog ) but most importantly my family .
I like to call myself pleasantly plump , but I’m a fatty  who hasn’t always been & don’t intend to stay this way , but I’m thinking if someone can except me now , for who I am , then the future has to be bright, doesn’t it ?
I’m looking for friendships to start with, if anything else happens it will naturally.
Good luck in your search guys x
DelightfulProfes967a, 33 Southampton Life is too short
Let’s have some fun
I’m an open book
Ask me anything
I’m ever ready to answer
Icheryl, 49 Southampton I am kind, open, warm-hearted and gentle. I am well travelled, have a good life and use to live without drama ore rush. I enjoy each new day and hope to meet a man to do it together till the end. Let's create our own little world?
They say that an ideal husband is a man who believes that he has an ideal wife. I do not believe in perfect people, but I believe in a human compatibility. What do you think? So, I am here with hopes to meeting a man, with whom we will create a compatible couple and may be family in future. By the way, I think that a woman can only fully reveal herself in a family. Describing myself, I can say that I have a good personality and rich inner world.
Of course I had a serious relationship in past, but now I am single and ready to open my heart and life to a cheerful, experienced, confident and well-mannered man.
LMJ77, 46 Southampton Music loving, History Geek. Love to dance, walk, wander....
Ask away!....
Springtime, getting lost in time, wandering up a mountain, music, History, art, culture, dance
Julie, 35 Southampton I am mature, active and goal-oriented woman who still wants to marry.I am educated, calm and polite. Talking to me you will have a feeling of lightness and harmony I am sensitive and I know how to improve your mood
I want to meet someone who likes to enjoy life, who will give me lots of emotions
Lancsgsylass, 63 Southampton I’m a mature lady who is very active and keen on looking after myself. Love chocolate and alcohol though!! Only interested in somebody who loves my company but appreciates time out. Love all sports, keen to have dinner dates, walks and lots of fun
Watching Liverpool play football!! And a glass of bubbles with special friends
Lizie, 57 Southampton rather I was called a tomboy, who constantly bruised, played with boys and climbed trees.
I keep after my health, I have no bad h! abits and I think that the girl should be educated lady and not to say obscene words.I think will be interesting to observe the world and the people who you meet on your way of this interesting and unexpected life.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Alang, 56 Southampton Hello happy fun loving normal guy don't like Moody just want a friend someone normal please
Probably work to much like being out side like walking and just having a nice time
Comfort8585, 34 Southampton Am Comfort Saah from Uk am single without know
I am seeking to meet someone caring,  faithful, communicative,  loyal,  generous,  understanding,  future driven,  honest, truthful to be with in a long term relationship,  courtship or marriage,  some one with Good
Female , 38 Southampton GIVING A TRY AND HOPEFULLY IT WORKS HERE
I'm 37 years old, living in the London region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 90 for serious long term and hopefully settle down if it works for us. My main motive is to find someone we can love each other and grow together.
Autumnsky, 54 Southampton Active at yoga and charity work. Self actualised. travel and nature inspired
A worthwhile cause interests me whist to be happiest it would be around animals. Forests. Spas
annavoy , 44 Southampton I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 82.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
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