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Members from in and around Southampton

Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Tloui, 32 Southampton Hello I am new here. Spread love
I am loving, caring and open minded and I hope to meet likeminded people
PEACE , 41 Southampton A cool headed guy, jovial and easy going.
The more you come close to me,the more you get to know me.
LT7766, 46 Southampton Outgoing, loyal, hardworking lady looking for a match.
I love being outdoors with my dogs and would love to have a partner who likes the same. My dream is to have a small holding in the country.
FlirtySoulmate3, 43 Southampton I am punctual and collected, I like order and cleanliness in everything.
I really want one man to captivate and charm me and thereby bring complete love chaos into my life) If the way to a man's heart lies through his stomach, then I assure you - you will be full, because you cannot resist from my desserts, and not only from sweets - you cannot resist me!
Ashleytoto, 43 Southampton Im a matured lady seeking a friend with benefit relationship.
I’m an easy going type and very down to earth, also honest and trustworthy
jeni328, 60 Southampton Try online dating they said so here goes.... I love the sky at night, the sun, music, fine wine, good manners, walks along the beach, love and laughter oh not forgetting tidiness and Zumba.

Now I have an edge, a realness about me, I can tell you it has
I'm very used to laughter my whole family has a great sense of humor it unites us endlessly. I love stand up comedy and Netflix specials especially Dave Chappell , Chris Rock, Ricky Gervais and Micky Flannagan.

I am passionate about my job, but also like to relax and just be; I enjoy a relatively stress free life {I hate drama} which I've learned to create by 'not sweating the small stuff'.  Life itself is a privilege, but to live life to the fullest - well, that is a choice.
Ptautos, 51 Southampton Hi I am looking for a beautiful lady to start a relationship with but to start with as friends with benefits I am looking for someone in Hampshire area near to where I live (Southampton)
I am happy when I am having fun and with a lady I like going out but also like cuddling up on the sofa.
Leah, 39 Southampton I describe myself as a simple and understanding person, besides I like to take care of my loved ones with whom I share my joy and spontaneity. I love to be kind, detailed, and affectionate to connect with people in the best way.
I consider myself a calm, kind, fun, honest, communicative and very romantic woman with values and principles. I am very committed and willing to fight for my dreams and goals alongside a man who supports me and is my number one fan. I am a woman who likes to support my partner and be a complement. I hope here to connect with my soulmate, my other half and my best friend. I am not a perfect woman but with my virtues and defects I can steal your heart!
lover11kk, 36 Southampton hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
annavoy , 44 Southampton I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 44 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 82.
HelenaW548, 28 Southampton Am usually outgoing and always like to have fun with others
I’m out going person I love reading, dancing, cooking etc
Tomy, 40 Southampton Hi am tomy I am new here I am looking for friends
I love meeting new people and love going out for fun
mike707Southampton, 62 Southampton Hi 1st time on here .Hoping to have fun
Not looking for anything serious to start with just looking for some company mainly daytime when I'm not working .
Elizabeth , 38 Southampton I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I am an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays.<br>I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.
Darryl, 50 Southampton I'm 50 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 50 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.
Delightfulmarlin, 40 Southampton I'm very much optimistic, sociable and friendly. Many people say that they can't believe that I'm an open and kind person meeting me for the first time, but when we start talking we immediately become friends lol.
I am a lady full of adventure and curiosity. Life has given us a wonderful opportunity to enjoy it! I have such romantic nature and also a woman with big heart.
Sweetness24, 39 Southampton Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature woman who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life.
Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature man who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life. I love the quiet of a good book, but l am also eager to explore the world and its wonders. At this point in my life, I am interested in finding a partner who shares my vision of what is truly important in life. I consider sincere communication and genuine connections to be fundamental in any relationship. Humor is a constant companion in my life, and I believe that a shared laugh can brighten even the darkest of days.
Mariabl107, 38 Southampton I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 70.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!

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