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Members from in and around Southampton

AffectionateMusi6b5a, 58 Southampton AM HONEST AND SINCERE woman and i want to meet a lovely man to get married
I like going out with my friends and i like watching football games
Ali, 51 Southampton Hi I'm ali with G S O H. Enjoy the sea. I'm a romantic. Love films and theaters. Don't like men with beards or smokers.
I'm happy seeing my grandchildren Love walking by sea.
Etherealann900, 43 Southampton I am ambitious and very kind lady with good sense humor. I am ready for a serious relationship.
I want man who will be  my best adviser, reliable partner, passionate lover and truly a good person.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
whiterose, 46 Southampton I am very serious responsible and honest young girl. I am kind, loyal, caring and protective. I work much and can rest good. I have an income that completely covers all my needs, so, I am looking for a man, love,
Sport, dancing, reading,  cooking, music.  Meeting with Friends.  I try to keep active,  healthy, style of life-I keep healthy diet,  do sport and love yoga.
Delightfulmarlin, 40 Southampton I'm very much optimistic, sociable and friendly. Many people say that they can't believe that I'm an open and kind person meeting me for the first time, but when we start talking we immediately become friends lol.
I am a lady full of adventure and curiosity. Life has given us a wonderful opportunity to enjoy it! I have such romantic nature and also a woman with big heart.
Razor72, 50 Southampton goes it where see and friendship for looking Hi
happy me make people happy so miserable To to short too IsLife
lover11kk, 36 Southampton hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
HelenaW548, 28 Southampton Am usually outgoing and always like to have fun with others
I’m out going person I love reading, dancing, cooking etc
Andermar, 56 Southampton Kind caring and honest love too meet same type of man
Love outdoors, animals and fishing and living life in the country
Lovely123, 46 Southampton I am a cheerful, gentle and positive girl, I am looking for a man here and I will always respect a man as the head of the family. For me, family values always come first.
I like outdoor recreation, spending the night in a tent or hiking in the mountains. There is always positive and good mood in my life, I am one of those people who are always looking for good things and I am sure that I can find a man here with whom I will feel good. I want to leave Ukraine in the future, it is difficult for me to stay here at such a difficult time. If you want to get to know me better, then I will be glad to receive your letter.
Riz, 45 Southampton Looking for someone to share my life with. I have no kids, just a cat. And that profile summary just highlights how long I have been out of the dating game. Please say hi so I can do better. Thanks
Love a good hug. Conversation. Doing things with others, whether cooking together or going out somewhere. Enjoy gardening, although by no means professional at that. Enjoy DIY challenges. Ride a motorcycle.
SparklingProfessor46, 54 Southampton A well disciplined and groomed man ready to put the past behind and move forward in his rather shattered love life
I like books, adventure movies just as I like going on adventures. There’s a lot more which can’t be put here….
AmorousDaydreamer45d2d1, 40 Southampton Life is short and good as the same time, try doing your best. I believe nothing last forever
All I can say about myself is that I am a good girl! I love nature, relaxation, singing. Deep down, I am a romantic. From the side I am a tigress. My family says that there is no one in the world whom I cannot love. I am a very open girl. I try to follow my lifestyle. It is very important for me to understand how I will spend this day. After all, every day should be special…
romseyelectricalservi780, 41 Southampton Looking for someone to laugh and chill with other
Motorcycle mad, love to travel ,
Laugh and live life to the full
lilly12, 55 Southampton I am very pretty lady, I really like to settle down with the right person, am not here for games, am well respected woman with my own aims i wanna achieve.
I am not an ordinary girl. I will make any man, who will choose to share his life with me very happy. If I give my word, I do everything to keep it and never disappoint anyone. I am not used to compliments. I prefer simple things that come deep from your heart. Between a sweet lie and a bitter truth, I will always prefer a bitter truth. I have a good sense of humor and become happy when I can bring a smile to someone's face.
Emma, 54 Southampton I'm open and friendly and I like to get on with people
born as a boy should have been a girl but I do love other boys. I'm just a normal girl really , I believe I'm open and friendly and I like to get on with people , I am quite chatty
jeni302, 60 Southampton Here’s the thing … I’m about honesty and trust. I’m content with life but would love it to be enhanced by being part of a couple & creating a meaningful relationship.
Try online dating they said so here goes…
Hi there! I’m Jenise I now work part time which means I’ve got plenty of time to kick back and enjoy life maybe have a nice glass of wine at weekends. I live near the sea and love to spend time unwinding by the beach. I’m into travelling and would love to meet a man who’ll have his passport at the ready! I love the sky at night, the sun, music, fine wine, good manners, love and laughter oh not forgetting tidiness and Zumba.
Now I do have an edge and realness about me, I can tell you it has kept me in good stead so far. I like when my man is honest, kind and thoughtful with a good heart and great sense of humor. Its important to me that he's able to talk to all types of people, from doctors to dishwashers. I’m looking for a serious relationship. No time wasters please count me out as it is so tedious playing games I’ll leave that to the game players.
Upforanything, 25 Southampton I don’t know what to say come find out
I will answer just ask I don’t mind don’t know what else to put

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