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Members from in and around Southampton

Ashleytoto, 43 Southampton Im a matured lady seeking a friend with benefit relationship.
I’m an easy going type and very down to earth, also honest and trustworthy
Autumnsky, 54 Southampton Active at yoga and charity work. Self actualised. travel and nature inspired
A worthwhile cause interests me whist to be happiest it would be around animals. Forests. Spas
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Lipsy , 35 Southampton I'm 35 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 35 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 86.
Etherealann900, 43 Southampton I am ambitious and very kind lady with good sense humor. I am ready for a serious relationship.
I want man who will be  my best adviser, reliable partner, passionate lover and truly a good person.
made to please, 41 Southampton Looking for non committed woman that are interesting, fun, good a conversation and open
I'm 41, experienced and tall. Handsome and fun with a pinch of romance
HopefulTracy88, 38 Southampton Let’s Try Open Communication..
I'm someone who has a lot to offer to the right partner. I'm happy with my life alone but not lonely. I miss sharing it all with someone special. I enjoy long conversations, experiences, and romance. I want a best friend and companion first..and let nature take its course, if it is mutual and we want to marry that's a decision to be made later.I am at a point in my life where I want to spend some quality time with a mate that will share all life has to offer. I'm independent and self reliant but would love the opportunity to have a partner again. Life is so wonderful and I know I am not meant to spend it alone. I'm easy going, never moody, open minded, witty, and intelligent. I laugh a lot and enjoy life. I think mutual respect and mutual admiration for each other is important.
Tracy1400, 34 Southampton I am hoping to find someone who is older and mature and who is ready to be loved and spoiled. I am ready to love him and take care of him and make him happy everyday!
I am outgoing girl. I like to talk in direct way but I know how to control myself not to hurt people with words. I am caring and love to make friends. I am not experienced girl in love, don't worry I am a normal girl. I just wait for the one makes my heart beat fast for him all the time.
Sweetness24, 39 Southampton Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature woman who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life.
Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature man who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life. I love the quiet of a good book, but l am also eager to explore the world and its wonders. At this point in my life, I am interested in finding a partner who shares my vision of what is truly important in life. I consider sincere communication and genuine connections to be fundamental in any relationship. Humor is a constant companion in my life, and I believe that a shared laugh can brighten even the darkest of days.
LMJ77, 46 Southampton Music loving, History Geek. Love to dance, walk, wander....
Ask away!....
Springtime, getting lost in time, wandering up a mountain, music, History, art, culture, dance
GlamorousLegend252dc3, 47 Southampton Reading, self education is very important, cooking something new when inspiration hits me and just being a woman it means looking good, femenine, tender and caring.
I am not an Angel, not all women would be brave enough to say that, but I do believe I can make a man happy at the end of the day not a drama queen, just want harmony, some laugh when we cook together or walk together, lots of kisses are included.
busst677, 62 Southampton I’m a happy go lucky sort person.  Enjoy the outdoors, love being  by the sea.  The smell the sound.  I’m at piece when I’m nearby to me it just got healing powers . Next wildlife.
Really.   I leave that to you :-))

Dry sense of humour.
Love Fool and Horses
Blue, 49 Southampton Divorced mother of three looking for long term loving relationship
I love travelling, reading, tennis and cooking l. I am in my mid forties, divorced, mother, I am hard working, a bit shy, loving, kind and fun !
Deborah Mor, 37 Southampton Simply adorable, young, positive, easy and not choosy, nor moody girl! I am communicative and have many good friends, but not so many close ones. I can say I am very loyal in friendship and relationship, I can't stand cheating at all
Listening to music , watching movies , swimming , cooking
Anita, 48 Southampton Can we explore with love and happiness
I am a woman who will warm you and give you many warm thoughts and love! Are you ready for a vibrant life with me in reality outside of a dating site?
Stepheng, 53 Southampton Hi my name is Stephen I live in park gate Southampton
I can drive and can come to you I have
Sarah, 58 Southampton love, caring, honesty, undestanding,
friends, walking, chatting, listening to music, sport
CompassionateSch0821, 43 Southampton I'm looking for my soul mate .
I'm kind,sincere,modest ,caring,honest. generous .
FriendlyFashionista20, 33 Southampton I am easy going trusted caring and respected I am a good kind woman that I have a great heart of love and honey All I want is to find someone great will keep me safe and great in love.
I do like going to fishing camping swimming as well as take my dog for walking I have a big heart of love that I want to find the best man who is going to stay good and ever with me my life have been mess due to bad relationship so I don't want to waste no more just want to find love and happiness.
Ali, 51 Southampton Hi I'm ali with G S O H. Enjoy the sea. I'm a romantic. Love films and theaters. Don't like men with beards or smokers.
I'm happy seeing my grandchildren Love walking by sea.

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