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Members from in and around Southampton

Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Comfort8585, 34 Southampton Am Comfort Saah from Uk am single without know
I am seeking to meet someone caring,  faithful, communicative,  loyal,  generous,  understanding,  future driven,  honest, truthful to be with in a long term relationship,  courtship or marriage,  some one with Good
Razor72, 50 Southampton goes it where see and friendship for looking Hi
happy me make people happy so miserable To to short too IsLife
Ptautos, 51 Southampton Hi I am looking for a beautiful lady to start a relationship with but to start with as friends with benefits I am looking for someone in Hampshire area near to where I live (Southampton)
I am happy when I am having fun and with a lady I like going out but also like cuddling up on the sofa.
Casandra , 43 Southampton I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger..
I hope you’ll take me serious because I demand attention and respect.. I am Submissive lady hope you can be dominant on me , I look forward going deeper and stronger.. I am a one man’s woman want to focus on settling down.. if you’re serious we can take things beyond conversation.
Sam, 56 Southampton Save me for applying for a ridiculous TV dating show please
I’m happiest when I’m in a warm close relationship with someone who is available in every way
leec93, 35 Southampton My name is lee and i have to amazing kids
Love football work heard and just looking for my soulmate
Lipsy , 35 Southampton I'm 35 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 35 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 86.
AffectionateMusi6b5a, 58 Southampton AM HONEST AND SINCERE woman and i want to meet a lovely man to get married
I like going out with my friends and i like watching football games
Stepheng, 53 Southampton Hi my name is Stephen I live in park gate Southampton
I can drive and can come to you I have
HelenaW548, 28 Southampton Am usually outgoing and always like to have fun with others
I’m out going person I love reading, dancing, cooking etc
Tomy, 40 Southampton Hi am tomy I am new here I am looking for friends
I love meeting new people and love going out for fun
Lizie, 57 Southampton rather I was called a tomboy, who constantly bruised, played with boys and climbed trees.
I keep after my health, I have no bad h! abits and I think that the girl should be educated lady and not to say obscene words.I think will be interesting to observe the world and the people who you meet on your way of this interesting and unexpected life.
Valarie77Lk, 38 Southampton Hey there..Am here looking for serious relationship.
I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.
whiterose, 46 Southampton I am very serious responsible and honest young girl. I am kind, loyal, caring and protective. I work much and can rest good. I have an income that completely covers all my needs, so, I am looking for a man, love,
Sport, dancing, reading,  cooking, music.  Meeting with Friends.  I try to keep active,  healthy, style of life-I keep healthy diet,  do sport and love yoga.
Lancsgsylass, 63 Southampton I’m a mature lady who is very active and keen on looking after myself. Love chocolate and alcohol though!! Only interested in somebody who loves my company but appreciates time out. Love all sports, keen to have dinner dates, walks and lots of fun
Watching Liverpool play football!! And a glass of bubbles with special friends
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.
Liz, 54 Southampton Single again after a 20 year marriage and looking to meet new people for interesting hobbies and travel. I love art, architecture, books, politics and history.
I’m more of an introvert but like to laugh and believe in kindness, respect and treating people well.
FriendlyFashionista20, 33 Southampton I am easy going trusted caring and respected I am a good kind woman that I have a great heart of love and honey All I want is to find someone great will keep me safe and great in love.
I do like going to fishing camping swimming as well as take my dog for walking I have a big heart of love that I want to find the best man who is going to stay good and ever with me my life have been mess due to bad relationship so I don't want to waste no more just want to find love and happiness.
Tracy1400, 34 Southampton I am hoping to find someone who is older and mature and who is ready to be loved and spoiled. I am ready to love him and take care of him and make him happy everyday!
I am outgoing girl. I like to talk in direct way but I know how to control myself not to hurt people with words. I am caring and love to make friends. I am not experienced girl in love, don't worry I am a normal girl. I just wait for the one makes my heart beat fast for him all the time.

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