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Members from in and around Southampton

MoanForYou, 43 Southampton I am real with many positive sides and flaws. I am here because I want to meet a real man and I will be glad to talk to you and know you better than you know me. I am a lover of life and everything it has to offer.
Dreaming of sun, sand, and salty air. On a mission to find my own little piece of paradise. I'm passionate about making the most out of every moment. Let's make memories together.
Lara, 52 Southampton Just looking to see what is out there for me
Local only
shy, honest, loyal,considerate, loving,
ask me and i will tell
short, long dark hair, very much like sci-fi films, programs, and rock music i do love the guitar  but don't play.
I'm here like every one else, so respectful and be truthful, and we might get along.
the guys i like are tall, dark brown eyes, if thats you and you like my profile than do contact me..
not here to play games with people's feelings, am looking for mr great, am waiting!!...
cheers Lara xxxxx



I have anxiety too.. need a lovely strong man in my life, been single a while now, so its time for me to spread my wings and come out of my comfort zone, and try ago at finding a great guy, i won't give up on looking as he's got to be out there for me...
Message me!!
Tracy1400, 34 Southampton I am hoping to find someone who is older and mature and who is ready to be loved and spoiled. I am ready to love him and take care of him and make him happy everyday!
I am outgoing girl. I like to talk in direct way but I know how to control myself not to hurt people with words. I am caring and love to make friends. I am not experienced girl in love, don't worry I am a normal girl. I just wait for the one makes my heart beat fast for him all the time.
lover11kk, 36 Southampton hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
hello handsome xx please i'm here looking for a man and a little fun and someone to meet up and make a little romance together text me with your email
BubblyManLOL, 37 Southampton Open minded, sociable, pacified love nature old and used to the latest fad in town. I’m hopeful and look forward to meet my love-bird!!!!
I love nature and everything surrounding it. I’m the shy type at first, but you’ll find me pretty socialise and talkative (lol) when you get to know me better. Love cooking, that’s my habit. Going on hikes, camping, hanging out at old bars, kayaking, traveling. I only miss a sweet kind person in my life.
HelenaW548, 28 Southampton Am usually outgoing and always like to have fun with others
I’m out going person I love reading, dancing, cooking etc
Sweetness24, 39 Southampton Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature woman who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life.
Throughout my life, I have embraced the wisdom that comes with experience. I am a mature man who has learned to appreciate the simple things and the beauty of everyday life. I love the quiet of a good book, but l am also eager to explore the world and its wonders. At this point in my life, I am interested in finding a partner who shares my vision of what is truly important in life. I consider sincere communication and genuine connections to be fundamental in any relationship. Humor is a constant companion in my life, and I believe that a shared laugh can brighten even the darkest of days.
McStealth, 28 Southampton Hi I like video games, I test games for a living. I'm the drummer in my rock band and can play a bit of guitar
I can play Drums and a bit of guitar, I like Listening to Rock Music such as Nirvana, Foo fighters and Smashing Pumpkins
Darryl, 50 Southampton I'm 50 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 50 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.
Joseph, 31 Southampton Very simple and friendly here, love cooking and dancing
Very outgoing person, and has a good sense of humor
Florence372, 49 Southampton Am single Without no kids and never married before, I would like to meet the real man who’s responsible and asking for a relationship to lead us to the best future together.
I would like to tell you a bit about myself. I am a woman of strong character and kind heart, and you have a chance to meet me here on this online dating site. I
Mariabl107, 38 Southampton I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm 38 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 70.
Alang, 56 Southampton Hello happy fun loving normal guy don't like Moody just want a friend someone normal please
Probably work to much like being out side like walking and just having a nice time
jeni328, 60 Southampton Try online dating they said so here goes.... I love the sky at night, the sun, music, fine wine, good manners, walks along the beach, love and laughter oh not forgetting tidiness and Zumba.

Now I have an edge, a realness about me, I can tell you it has
I'm very used to laughter my whole family has a great sense of humor it unites us endlessly. I love stand up comedy and Netflix specials especially Dave Chappell , Chris Rock, Ricky Gervais and Micky Flannagan.

I am passionate about my job, but also like to relax and just be; I enjoy a relatively stress free life {I hate drama} which I've learned to create by 'not sweating the small stuff'.  Life itself is a privilege, but to live life to the fullest - well, that is a choice.
Upforanything, 25 Southampton I don’t know what to say come find out
I will answer just ask I don’t mind don’t know what else to put
Valarie77Lk, 38 Southampton Hey there..Am here looking for serious relationship.
I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person.. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.
made to please, 41 Southampton Looking for non committed woman that are interesting, fun, good a conversation and open
I'm 41, experienced and tall. Handsome and fun with a pinch of romance
jeni302, 60 Southampton Here’s the thing … I’m about honesty and trust. I’m content with life but would love it to be enhanced by being part of a couple & creating a meaningful relationship.
Try online dating they said so here goes…
Hi there! I’m Jenise I now work part time which means I’ve got plenty of time to kick back and enjoy life maybe have a nice glass of wine at weekends. I live near the sea and love to spend time unwinding by the beach. I’m into travelling and would love to meet a man who’ll have his passport at the ready! I love the sky at night, the sun, music, fine wine, good manners, love and laughter oh not forgetting tidiness and Zumba.
Now I do have an edge and realness about me, I can tell you it has kept me in good stead so far. I like when my man is honest, kind and thoughtful with a good heart and great sense of humor. Its important to me that he's able to talk to all types of people, from doctors to dishwashers. I’m looking for a serious relationship. No time wasters please count me out as it is so tedious playing games I’ll leave that to the game players.
Sally, 39 Southampton I am kind, caring and considerate.
I am kind, caring and considerate. I am a good listener, know about the heart of others. Let's memorize all the good things, cherish what we have right now, and create a cozy home together.

I am looking for a reliable man with good manners, not hot-tempered, kind and attentive, the one to be happy with forever. The man for me is the person to respect, to care and to love.
Roy, 59 Southampton Looking for love and friendship, who accepts me as I am, and doesn't want to change that
Disabled and really not allowed to work, but do volunteer in a local comminuty library and am fully screened to work with Children.

IF YOU LIVE OUTSIDE HAMPSHIRE THERE IS LITTLE CHANCE OF A MEET, AT A PUSH I COULD MEET IN CHRISTCHURCH (DOREST) OR BOURNEMOUTH (DORSET). Please don't send messages if you live 70-300 miles from Southampton, Hampshire, suggesting we are a good match, because even if we are, we'll never see each other in person.

I enjoy music, most genres, films most genre, the quieter life style.

beaches throwning stone, watching the ships sail by, nice coffee stops or Ice-cream stops. I cannot live an active life due to health, but still try to enjoy the little pleasures of life. Money doesn't make me happy. I prefer simple plain English foods rather that elaborate foreign and spicy foods. A bag of chips, sat in the car near the beach, with a flask of coffee watching the boats is heaven.

Please if you want someone for your gym lifestyle, I'm not going to be your type. You will have to accept my health limits and use of walking aids at times. I tend to prefer home life rather going out, certainly steer clear of pub life, as not only don't drink alcohol, but find being around people that are tipsy, they tend to talk nonsense. Where I am usually coldly controlled.

That said I am a tactile person, who likes to hold hands in public with my partner, cuddle up on the sofa with a cuppa, watching a good film.

I tend to know from personnal experiences whether someone is going to be someone that I could see to spend quality time with..

First and foremost, I was to build a solid friendship with a person, getting to know them, before going to far ahead of myself.

Enjoy the forest, but walking long distances across there now is beyond my.

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