Searching for my muse. Could you be her?

Looking for a female, ages 18-90

Throughout my life, I have befriended, dominated, married, loved and been loved by women across a spectrum of ages, from tcens, up to nearly 20 years my senior.  Everyone is unique.  Everyone has something different to bring to the table. Everyone has something they can learn and sometimes, they have something to teach.

I am a Dom.  I plan, I orchestrate, I direct, I teach, I control.  I will not demean you.  I will offer guidance and encouragement on improving oneself in this world.  Should you fall, I will pick you up but also teach you to stand stronger.  If you are frightened, I will protect you but also show you that there is nothing to be frightened of.  If you are sad, I will consul you but also show you that sadness has its place.  I will keep you safe from danger but also teach you how to protect yourself.  You will be my muse, my inspiration, my love, my desire.  Regardless of the arrangement, it is my intention to share a life together, create experiences and fulfill reachable goals.  

When our time comes to an end in this world, let us leave with memories, not with dreams.

And to let you know up front, I am not rich.  I do not own real estate.  In fact my residence is currently in a mobile home park.  I have a very good job.  I work from home.  I am creating a personal multi-media project and stories that may help me and my inamorata to retire in comfort.  But there's no guarantee.  I am not the epitome of health.  I'm a little overweight.  I do not look young.  I’ve lived a hard life at times and it shows. But I am a good man with a good heart and mind to love and share experiences.  I sing karaoke.  I like tattoos but have none.  I love bikes and horses, neither have I ridden in 30 years.  I usually wear jeans and boots.  I vacation on the Gulf of Mexico in Florida and will likely retire there, though there are also considerations for a few foreign destinations.  I enjoy cooking from time to time.  I enjoy conversations about religion, politics, conspiracy theories, science (fiction and theoretical) and music.  I like day trips and relaxing… fireworks and thunderstorms… 60's/70's pop and classic rock...  tennis, roller skating and late night swims.

What I am seeking though, is something in particular.  Ideally, I am looking for a submissive woman who is shorter than 5’6”, slender with a natural appearance.  She is family-oriented but needs one-on-one and perhaps occasional solo time.  She loves being the damsel in distress, enjoys soft and rough sex, breath play, wrestling, bondage, role-playing, costuming, photography and video.  Additionally, she may like renaissance fairs, cosplay conventions, antiquing, auctions, beaches, cycling, storm watching, star gazing, abandon places, ghost hunts, and of course karaoke is a major plus.  She is unconditionally trustworthy, honest, reliable, loving and loyal.  She may be an introvert or shy, although outgoing extroverts are not entirely a turn-off.

If you are the type of person who must stand out in a crowd, are into the hip-hop lifestyle, follow the Kardashians or other nonsensical reality crap, live on TikTok, or you emulate any 21st century pop artist, are all about getting paid; chains, rocks, plastic, fake breasts, nails, extensions, Botox, heavy makeup, crazy colored hair or you wear pajamas and slides on the street, I wish you happiness in your life, but you are not for me.

The relationship I seek is not all about sex, though there will be sex.  It's not all about BDSM, though it will be prevalent.  It's not all about taking care of, serving or servicing one or the other.

The relationship I seek will be a heart-to-heart connection, mutually supportive, a connection of mind, of body and of spirit.  It will be all about balance, friend and lover, sub and Dom, give and take, teaching and learning, Yin and Yang, Sun and Moon, Sky and Water.

You will be respected, valued, cherished and loved.

Are you the muse I seek?

If so, let's talk.  

If uncertain but curious, let’s talk.

I prefer meeting in person, locally, in a casual setting.

Give me an Mmmphf and let’s find out.


Male, 59 from Elkridge, Maryland