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Members from in and around Benfleet

Nicola, 43 Benfleet Looking for a normal guy.....sounds easy right??.....wrong!
 Im looking to meet someone im not interested in long drawn out conversations which last weeks only to find out your not the person you say or even vaguely resemble your profile photo.....who does that?
Debby, 61 Benfleet Is 60 the new 50 I hope so not ready for knitting yet lol
60 with a young outlook looking to date n see where it goes
Linse, 57 Benfleet Hoping to find the person that wants to travel the world with me, seeing the sights, making memories and staying young !
Kids are grown and flown the nest. Recently became a Nana to the most beautiful granddaughter ever. Work hard, play hard. Actively working through my bucket list. Love dancing, music, concerts,  theatre and  karaoke
Chloe, 38 Basildon I am looking forward to meeting someone to laugh with, make memories with.. life is too short for negativity
I am a Medical Secretary. I love to dance, that’s my medicine.
Would be nice to find someone who treats me as they would want to be treated themselves…
Denise60, 61 Maldon I am what you see , which in my case is alot
I honestly dont know what to say , im 60 looking for someone that shares the same interests as me that doesnt live too far away .
jjbb87, 36 Southend-on-sea Ginger fat chick looking to date and maybe more if we click. If you're lively and kind send me a message :)
Current life motto - Try everything, be brave.I'm an open book, honest to a fault, I've been told I'm a funny gal but I'd let you be the judge of that. I enjoy the simple things in life but always open to an adventure. I'm not really into wearing makeup or trying to be someone I'm not, I'm just me and I have crazy hair and like my comfy shoes.When I have time around work and life I like to watch a sci-fi movie or play a game, maybe binge a TV series with snacks on the sofa. Absolute cuddle monster and lover of the great outdoors.What I'm looking for is someone confident, kind, emotionally intelligent and outgoing. Someone who isn't afraid to keep life spicy.Food, animals and road trips make me happy.
Trueblue19, 66 Southend-on-sea Really easy going, great sense of humour
Looking for a kind, caring, honest & loyal lady with a great sense of humour, preferably still breathing, with all (or most) of her own teeth, and not in receipt of a free TV licence, or extreme age related benefits. Somebody interested in developing a long, happy and loving relationship, not a casual one. Definitely not into one night stands.

I'm very easy going, open minded, with a good sense of humour. I love spending time outdoors, either walking, or driving to see and explore interesting new places. I am equally happy spending time at home, relaxing with a good meal, and a good movie. I love animals, particularly dogs and cats. I love to travel abroad, and would particularly like to return to the Caribbean islands, and also visit the Far East, Australia, New Zealand & China. I used to be a regular visitor to the gym, and intend to motivate myself to start going again (within reason!!). I think I have a lot to offer the right person. Taste in music is wide and varied, from 60s pop and Motown, 70s rock & pop,disco, 80s & 90s rock & pop.
Jennie , 49 Basildon I would love to be able to come off the dating sites, I love to dance and can often be found dancing around in the kitchen. Im a massive marvel fan (sad I know)
Listening to music and honesty are things that make me happy.
Debiporthpor2, 40 Basildon Debi here new about to try my luck
I am a loving, considerate, kind and affectionate woman who values ;honesty and openness. I am open to everything new. And most importantly, I want to find my great love. I am real and sincere and would like to see this from my soulmate. I want to be next to a man who would appreciate all my qualities at their true worth
mick, 52 Woodham Ferrers Like sports. Keep fit  films .walking
Happy guy like going to restaurant out dancing with my partner . Walking along seafront . Honest and loyal. Like to make people happy around me . Looking for a great relationship
Debiporthpor2, 40 Basildon Debi here new about to try my luck
I am a loving, considerate, kind and affectionate woman who values ;honesty and openness. I am open to everything new. And most importantly, I want to find my great love. I am real and sincere and would like to see this from my soulmate. I want to be next to a man who would appreciate all my qualities at their true worth
Fiona , 47 Basildon I am a person who enjoys the small moments and pleasures that life has to offer us and of course I also like to love and be loved without jealousy, falsehood, lies or betrayal...
I like going for a walk on the beach, having a partner to go for a walk with, cooking, sitting on the couch watching a good movie with a glass of wine, spending time relaxing with my daughters.
MagneticSculptor36, 25 Northfleet looking for fun, message for details x
can accom, message me for details, don't care about age x

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