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Members from in and around Benfleet

Nicola, 43 Benfleet Looking for a normal guy.....sounds easy right??.....wrong!
 Im looking to meet someone im not interested in long drawn out conversations which last weeks only to find out your not the person you say or even vaguely resemble your profile photo.....who does that?
Debby, 61 Benfleet Is 60 the new 50 I hope so not ready for knitting yet lol
60 with a young outlook looking to date n see where it goes
Linse, 57 Benfleet Hoping to find the person that wants to travel the world with me, seeing the sights, making memories and staying young !
Kids are grown and flown the nest. Recently became a Nana to the most beautiful granddaughter ever. Work hard, play hard. Actively working through my bucket list. Love dancing, music, concerts,  theatre and  karaoke
bree018, 57 Chatham Go holiday out for drinks love the beach
I’m nice guy love outdoor to an beach meals out …… nice I do love curvy women too an liverly an nice I’m very active too love turkey too when I can holiday mean I have my own apartment in turkey I like going too love the beach nice some one to be with too long term so if vip can message me first as my membership run out I
roseline335, 35 Rochester I am looking for a sincere man with a pure heart and a kind soul. Someone who is ready to do things for his lady, and is willing to appreciate loyalty, care and love. I need someone who will be himself with me and always be honest.
I am a woman who believes in romance and even though I have not yet met my handsome prince, I know that this will definitely happen. I hope that it will happen soon; maybe I will meet my man here? At least I'll try! I can take care of someone and give warmth. I want to have a man next to me on whom I can rely, who will make me the happiest woman. I value kindness, honesty and loyalty in people, and I have these qualities too.
nancy126, 44 Brentwood Country girl at heart and new to this so here goes
I’m a happy warm-hearted person who loves walking my dog and I like to relax by watching movies, I like my music too ,I love helping loved ones and I enjoy my job as a carer. In my free time I like to socialise and have a good meal with my friends.
Cazza289, 57 Brentwood My ideal Sunday; a run or the gym,  walk with my boxer dog then I'm ready to chill out.
I love life and laugh lots (usually at myself!) You can find me dancing round the kitchen. I dance like no one's watching (and hope they're not).  and
Happiness is being with someone who will dance in the kitchen, who will laugh with me not just at me
Hey if you love fitness that would be a massive bonus
Lovely , 46 Brentwood I am a divorced, professional,  single mother. Prefer a man that is single, educated, professional, good chat/ banter
I am attracted to  men that are over 6ft and of medium/ muscular build
I’m 5”4, dark skinned, curvy, size 14-16 with natural assets.
Love great chat, banter. Days in and days out. Good sex.
Summerday, 48 Brentwood I am currently seperated and looking for someone empathic and kind who enjoys spending time together for friendship and see where it goes….
I love horror movies, I enjoy walking and coffee shops, weekends away I love my family and friends but I love spending time at home cooking and I can be spontaneous as I love exploring different parts of the country.
Shirley Valen, 61 Brentwood I am looking for a man to share my life with. I love day trips, theatre, meals out, holidays and cosy nights in. I have my own friends so would prefer someone who also has their iwn life. I am kind and fun loving but also very sincere and loving.
I love the sunshine and beach holidays and days out to places of interest.
Nicola, 43 Benfleet Looking for a normal guy.....sounds easy right??.....wrong!
 Im looking to meet someone im not interested in long drawn out conversations which last weeks only to find out your not the person you say or even vaguely resemble your profile photo.....who does that?
Seriousru0101, 45 Rochester PC Gamer guy seeks gamer girl for interactive fun.
I am a technology focused guy. A geek. I love gaming and all sci-fi. I am here looking for a like minded woman. I am well travelled and well paid. Games I am currently into Rust, Stormship troopers, Starcitizen. Plus open minded on new games.
Hatman22, 63 Chatham Frustrated? Then get in touch for relief!!!
Older man seeking sexy sensual woman for mutual fun and games!

I am divorced & free to indulge your every whim! If you are just looking for a guaranteed orgasm then look no further!

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