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Members from in and around Benfleet

Debby, 61 Benfleet Is 60 the new 50 I hope so not ready for knitting yet lol
60 with a young outlook looking to date n see where it goes
Nicola, 43 Benfleet Looking for a normal guy.....sounds easy right??.....wrong!
 Im looking to meet someone im not interested in long drawn out conversations which last weeks only to find out your not the person you say or even vaguely resemble your profile photo.....who does that?
Linse, 57 Benfleet Hoping to find the person that wants to travel the world with me, seeing the sights, making memories and staying young !
Kids are grown and flown the nest. Recently became a Nana to the most beautiful granddaughter ever. Work hard, play hard. Actively working through my bucket list. Love dancing, music, concerts,  theatre and  karaoke
Juliemass073, 73 Chatham Looking for friendship and see how things turn out .
I’m 5foot 7 inches tall. I like going out to the theatre and, meals I also like going on holidays preferably aboard where the sun is. I enjoy all the not al things that couples enjoy.
jambo209, 66 Northfleet Travelling partner wanted to see great sites!
I enjoy going out with friends and family as well as travel, sport,reading and most types of music

PLEASE ONLY RESPOND IF YOU RESIDE IN THE UNITED KINGDOM!
Harriet, 33 Danbury I’m here looking for a serious relationship and see where it lead us to
I am full of energy and love! My dream is to find love! Love does not know ages, right? I am in the perfect age to love and to concentrate on my man. I am experienced enough to make a mane happy. I am calm, wise and balanced. I like harmony in everything. I believe in marriage and I am sure I will be a loyal and loving wife!
lisag591, 48 Chatham L1foxy look for serious relationship
Like theme parks going restaurants Holidays cuddles party’s out or indoors. Chilling cooking music films
RomanticSuperhero46, 19 Southend-on-sea On here just to see what happens
Originally from South Africa, lived in the UK 9 years now
Blue, 70 Southend-on-sea Let’s hope there is someone nice out there
I like honest polite men and chatting first to find out more. I am fed up with time wasters
Trueblue19, 66 Southend-on-sea Really easy going, great sense of humour
Looking for a kind, caring, honest & loyal lady with a great sense of humour, preferably still breathing, with all (or most) of her own teeth, and not in receipt of a free TV licence, or extreme age related benefits. Somebody interested in developing a long, happy and loving relationship, not a casual one. Definitely not into one night stands.

I'm very easy going, open minded, with a good sense of humour. I love spending time outdoors, either walking, or driving to see and explore interesting new places. I am equally happy spending time at home, relaxing with a good meal, and a good movie. I love animals, particularly dogs and cats. I love to travel abroad, and would particularly like to return to the Caribbean islands, and also visit the Far East, Australia, New Zealand & China. I used to be a regular visitor to the gym, and intend to motivate myself to start going again (within reason!!). I think I have a lot to offer the right person. Taste in music is wide and varied, from 60s pop and Motown, 70s rock & pop,disco, 80s & 90s rock & pop.
julz, 48 Grays Happy go lucky
Looking for friends to go out with
for fun and laughter
Single mum looking for love.Am happy go lucky.Very loyal in a relationship and kind and caring.Looking for that special man to share special times with.
Terri, 57 Hartley Love to laugh but it’s much better with two!
I'm fun-loving and try to enjoy every day to the max.  I have a cheeky, mischievous sense of humour and usually end up getting myself into trouble because of it, but life's too short to be serious all the time. I'm a very kind, loyal person who believes in honesty and expects likewise.
I love nature and beautiful skies and feel at home in a pair of wellies, to cross a muddy field when camping or at a festival but I also scrub up well for the finer things in life too. I love technology and gadgets.
I love adreneline rushes. I've done a bungee jump and tandem paracending and hope to do a sky-dive. My next adventure is Insanity. 15 non-stop manoeuvres in a stunt plane.
James, 55 Southend-on-sea Im just a nice genuine guy looking for a lovely genuine lady to grow old with  that's not to much to ask is it ? xx go on say hello and get to know me  I am adorable and loving and kind xx
Being happy and making my lady happy is my priority  my friends are very important to me,  my group is small, quality over quantity...

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