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Members from in and around Southend-on-sea

JackD, 30 Southend-on-sea Overgrown geek who still dresses like it's 2009.
After a moderately strenuous day of real-life work, I like to unwind by playing some guitar, hopelessly failing or video games, or catching up with mates.

I try and exercise, probably do just enough sport to avoid a premature heart attack in my 40s, but I get far too many reminder emails telling me I really need to go gym again.
amyhow837, 48 Southend-on-sea Laid back, nature loving, animal mad , would love to meet someone similar to  go on adventures with and  make some memories .
Kind , fun , outdoor loving , dog walking adventurer seeks similar to everything and nothing with !  Fancy a long walk with a cosy pub as a destination?
Trueblue19, 66 Southend-on-sea Really easy going, great sense of humour
Looking for a kind, caring, honest & loyal lady with a great sense of humour, preferably still breathing, with all (or most) of her own teeth, and not in receipt of a free TV licence, or extreme age related benefits. Somebody interested in developing a long, happy and loving relationship, not a casual one. Definitely not into one night stands.

I'm very easy going, open minded, with a good sense of humour. I love spending time outdoors, either walking, or driving to see and explore interesting new places. I am equally happy spending time at home, relaxing with a good meal, and a good movie. I love animals, particularly dogs and cats. I love to travel abroad, and would particularly like to return to the Caribbean islands, and also visit the Far East, Australia, New Zealand & China. I used to be a regular visitor to the gym, and intend to motivate myself to start going again (within reason!!). I think I have a lot to offer the right person. Taste in music is wide and varied, from 60s pop and Motown, 70s rock & pop,disco, 80s & 90s rock & pop.
Fairydust184, 45 Southend-on-sea Looking forward to making friends and maybe more I’m fun and bubbly
I work! would like to meet new people for fun  xx
Fanita, 54 Southend-on-sea Love is like war never ends .....
Passionate in all I do. Work hard. Enjoy spending time with my friends Enjoy going out for a drink and a meal  I'm adventures , loyal and loving at one and the same time.Enjoy sun , beach but not much good in skiing. Enjoy travelling and meeting new countries and cultures. i'm looking for a partner in crime
EastDean, 55 Southend-on-sea Come say hi .
I don't bite
Go on I dare ya
Your just going to have to ask .and find out for yourself
GuyWhosPacking, 22 Southend-on-sea I know what kind of women I like and I just hope I can meet the right lady and satisfy her every need
I like watching plays, I’m a great listener, I like cats AND dogs, and I’m packing if you get me
Patmick, 62 Southend-on-sea Am devorsed 63 soon have one daughter she's 24 own car and place in spain
Like my lady to look smart dresss like travelling round world been alot places including Australia
RomanticSuperhero46, 19 Southend-on-sea On here just to see what happens
Originally from South Africa, lived in the UK 9 years now
James, 55 Southend-on-sea Im just a nice genuine guy looking for a lovely genuine lady to grow old with  that's not to much to ask is it ? xx go on say hello and get to know me  I am adorable and loving and kind xx
Being happy and making my lady happy is my priority  my friends are very important to me,  my group is small, quality over quantity...
jjbb87, 36 Southend-on-sea Ginger fat chick looking to date and maybe more if we click. If you're lively and kind send me a message :)
Current life motto - Try everything, be brave.I'm an open book, honest to a fault, I've been told I'm a funny gal but I'd let you be the judge of that. I enjoy the simple things in life but always open to an adventure. I'm not really into wearing makeup or trying to be someone I'm not, I'm just me and I have crazy hair and like my comfy shoes.When I have time around work and life I like to watch a sci-fi movie or play a game, maybe binge a TV series with snacks on the sofa. Absolute cuddle monster and lover of the great outdoors.What I'm looking for is someone confident, kind, emotionally intelligent and outgoing. Someone who isn't afraid to keep life spicy.Food, animals and road trips make me happy.
Blue, 70 Southend-on-sea Let’s hope there is someone nice out there
I like honest polite men and chatting first to find out more. I am fed up with time wasters
Sabrina, 39 Southend-on-sea Hi I'm a single mum .looking to talk to decent  guys.
Looking to talk to decent and mature  guys.  Not looking for fun

Local dating ideas

Searching for the perfect first date idea? Look no further than Southend-on-Sea! This vibrant town offers a plethora of exciting and unique options to impress your potential match. Whether you're into puzzles, amusement parks, or fine dining, there's something for everyone in this charming coastal town. Imagine stepping into another world at Escape Live Southend. With their themed escape rooms, you and your date can put your problem-solving skills to the test as you work together to solve clues and escape before time runs out. It's an exhilarating experience that will surely create lasting memories. For a more classic date spot, head over to Adventure Island. This amusement park is filled with thrilling rides, water attractions, and arcade games that will bring out the inner child in both of you. Hold hands on roller coasters or challenge each other to win prizes at the game booths – it's a recipe for fun and laughter. If you prefer a relaxed atmosphere with some friendly competition mixed in, Kingpins Bowl is the place to be. Enjoy some strikes and spares while sipping on cocktails at their bar or indulging in delicious food from their restaurant menu. For those seeking an unforgettable culinary experience, Food by John Lawson is an absolute must-visit. Their focus on locally-sourced ingredients ensures that every dish is bursting with flavor and creativity. Treat your taste buds while getting to know each other better over candlelight – it's sure to leave a lasting impression. Take advantage of Southend Pier & Railway for a romantic stroll along its historic structure while enjoying breathtaking views of the sea. And if excitement is what you're after, Genting Casino has got you covered with its array of games and entertainment options that will keep things interesting all night long. Looking for something more active? Rollacity offers roller skating sessions where you can glide hand-in-hand across the rink or challenge each other in arcade games afterward – it's guaranteed fun for both of you. For a trendy and hip atmosphere, The Spritz Social in Chelmsford is the perfect spot. Sip on delicious cocktails and indulge in small plates while enjoying the vibrant ambiance of this pop-up bar. And if you're up for some friendly competition, head to Boom Battle Bar Lakeside. From axe throwing to bottomless brunches, this activity destination will keep your adrenaline pumping and laughter flowing throughout the date. These are just a few of the many options available in Southend-on-Sea. With so much variety, there's no excuse for a boring first date! So why not take the plunge and become a member of My Town Dating? Our platform connects you with like-minded individuals who are also seeking meaningful connections right here in your town. Sign up today and let us help you find love while exploring all that Southend-on-Sea has to offer!

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